Still seeing my secret lover of just over five months, although things have started to slide between us.

We are never in the same town at the same time, so the illicit lunchtime meetings have had to stop, he has new work committments, and, of course, I feel very much second best in his life right now.

However I have no right to complain, as I am still enjoying flirtations with a colleague from another office. Trouble is he has a girlfriend. Although that didn't stop that one ill-advised back seat blow job in the park a few months ago.

And my ex, the computer programmer manager-type, who I was so hugely keen on once upon a time, appears to have given up his attempts to make me his bit on the side, after failing to tell me he was spoken for.

I have to say, the whole idea seems quite tempting now. The sex was rather electric. Or it may be because I'm not getting the excitement from my 5 month fling anymore.