There is just some shit I really wanna get off my chest. If you know a woman is emotional and you know she doesn't give her body freely, don't approach her with the proposition to go there with her, if you are not any the situation to take the relationship further. Be honest with her from jump! Completely honest!! So that she can decide in all fairness, with all the facts, whether she wants to be involved with you! Its so unfair when you have been dealing with her a few months, then you lay all the cards out on the fucking table, but you saw her queen, and king before she hopped in the sack with you. She falls in love under false pretenses and its too fucking late to take that shit back!! If you like a womans body and you diggin her physically, snd you just wanna see what it feels like to be inside of her SAY THAT when you proposition her. If you got a lady you like but don't love and you just need something exciting on the outside of the relationship to help you hold on, then TELL this to the woman you are propositioning! It is only FAIR! What's not fair is a man leading a woman to believe nothing is holding him from a future with her, should things progress that way. So she does not gaurd her heart when she opens her body to him. Each time, she falls more and more in love. And then, BAM! Here goes the truth. He has been dealing with someone else for a year, though he was single, he wasn't really. Not in every sense of the word, another relationship was building on the side all the while he is dealing with you. It's cruel for a man to ask a woman not to love him cause he's with some one else. To let her cry over what coulda been or to harbour insecurity and wonder what was wrong with her. What seems like should hurt only fuels a man's ego. If there's not even a CHANCE that you could be with a woman in the future, don't lay with her under the pretenses that it could be.and if you mess up one time, due to temptation, it's ok. But if it's continuous then you have a problem to deal with. Whew. I got some of it off my chest, I'm sure its more to come. Lol. Comments are welcome, ALL opinions are welcome. Let's tango.