• woman said on Nov 09, 2008....

  I'm so sorry you have to go through this but it is good it is peaceful and people are "ok" about this ending. Maybe soon you can look at it as a beginning. Hugs

• Twylarants said on Nov 09, 2008....

  I'm so sorry, Jenna. You'll be fine...you will.

• Jenna said on Nov 09, 2008....

  woman......twla....I am ok......it is a new beginning......I truly know that ....but still it kind of hurts.  guess I am just a bit nostalgic tonight.   All will be fine when the sun comes up in the morning...thanks...xo

• mobil said on Nov 09, 2008....

  It's been over for a long time Jenna, it's just that now it's official. It's like someone we know in a coma.
   
  As long as there is a breath there is life, now the breath is out of your marrage. That hurts, it's really, really over.........God Bless you, him and the kids.

• MissMimi said on Nov 09, 2008....

  {{{{{Jenna}}}}}  It's always difficult when a marriage ends, no matter the reason, no matter whether it's expected or not.  I'll keep you in my thoughts. 

• secretlife said on Nov 09, 2008....

  i'm glad you are finally formalizing this.
  it's the right thing for all of you, and now you can really and truly move forward!
  {{{{{{{{{[hugs & love to you}}}}}}}}}}}

• queenparanoia said on Nov 10, 2008....

  it hurts... but you have to move on...

  {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

• yani said on Nov 10, 2008....

  im so sorry.....as much as we would like everything to work out perfectly..there are just things which we can't control jenna. im sure things will get better. {{{{{{ hugs }}}}}}

• Mamie said on Nov 10, 2008....

  I'm swaying back and forth with my Bic held high...you will be okay baby girl...one door closes so another can open. One baby step at a time...and I will walk with you. xoxoxo M

• CayenneMan said on Nov 10, 2008....

    Wow Jenna this is a rough time of the year to be going through this. I know you have alot on your mind with your personal life and students. It must be difficult at times to sort it all out but I now know you're one hell of a woman to be able to deal with this. I know your living a very full life but that's not always the easiest thing to do while encountering obstacles that seem to partially block the path leading to your happiness. I wish you well and more then anything else I want you to be happy.  I don't even know you Jenna but I like the little bit of Jenna I've met here at SoulCast. This time I meant for you to have this song  . . . I like it and I hope you do to. Have a great day Jenna.

   

  
  

    

   

• RollingC said on Nov 10, 2008....

  ((( HUGS )))  Jenna....
  It was never in my dreams or intentions to separate and divorce...yet...here I am also.  In the same boat and the only difference is that mine was 7 years and with none of my own kids.  
  You'll make it Jenna.  I'm finding out too and it hurts like you said but taking it one day at a time.
  Rc
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Nov 10, 2008....

  You're being very strong about this.  It's a very emotional experience.  I wish you all the best as you go forward.

• diabolicdame said on Nov 10, 2008....

  ((((((((((hug)))))))))))

• Alyss said on Nov 10, 2008....

  {hugs} Jenna

• Lucytorial said on Nov 10, 2008....

  Jenna, with so much history with someone how could you not feel the nostalgia.
   
  You are now free to be a happy person and make your life happy once again.  As your ex partner is too.
   
  I'm glad it was peaceful, I'm glad yoru kids are okay with it all.  It makes a nice change to hear about.

• starchini said on Nov 10, 2008....

  : <  ....

• Jenna said on Nov 10, 2008....

  mobil.....thanks bud.  It has been over for a long time.  I have been separated for five years now.  For some reason neither one of us pushed to finalize everything.  But it is time, I know it. Thanks for your blessings.  Everyone is ok.  I am sad that it has to be this way, but I am proud of the way he and I have handled it for the kids.  We are still friends and do things as a family at times.  again, thanks!
   
  mims...it is sad, but as I said to mobil...its time.  Thanks for your thoughts.
   
  secret.....it is the best for everyone.  He has moved on with his life.  I have moved on with mine.  I guess we were both just scared to make it final.  I think it will be a stress off of everyone once it is official.  But still kind of scary ya know?
   
  queenie.....I am moving on sweetie.....I am moving on.  Thanks!
   
  Mams....you know I am ok.  A long time coming.  The finality of it all just makes me pause and kind of feel sad.  But doors are opening every where.....I am good.  Thanks sweetie.
   
  CM.....I am ok...even though the holidays are upon us.  It was harder earlier.  The thing is, I wanted the split....I needed the split.  I am trying to find my happy....and I am doing fine.  This is a hurdle we both need to get over.  I actually think finalizing things will take pressure off and help us form a new kind of relationship.  We like each other...we still share many laughs.  We just can't live together.  Thanks for the song dear one.  You are pretty special yourself.  Thanks!
   
  RC....I know you know my friend.  No one ever imagines this will happen.  We are both survivors and I know our day is coming.  I am good....and I hope the pain lessens for you each day.  I wish you happiness!
   
  Uni....I am so strong because we have lived apart for five years now.  It is just in the finalizing....well kind of in my face.  But can't go over it, can't go under it, can't go around it.  Gotta go through it....and that is usually when the most learning takes place.  Thanks uni!
   
  D and Alyss.....Thanks for the hugs!!!!!!!
   
  Lucy....yes.....time to let it go...move on and be happy!  Thanks!
   
  Star....all is cool. 
   
  Thanks for your support friends!  It means alot.
  Love to you all!
  Jen

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