• whisper said on Aug 21, 2006....

  you have to confront the situation afterall. why are you hiding from it. Do u fling sometimes? if yes then its her right too. if not then its not her right to betray you. How can you kee4p living in this agony forever?
  

• Danj3ris said on Aug 21, 2006....

  Take it this way: If they are keeping it from you, you cannot trust either of them.
  
  Your friend cannot be trusted, and is someone who you should not be friends with.
  
  Your wife cannot be trusted, and it is in your choice whether or not you can continue being married to her.
  
  Someone will be lost in this situation. Instead of it being you, confront them both. Maybe even together at the same time, and have another friend around as well who is willing to support you in confronting two untrustworthy people.
  

• satyr said on Aug 21, 2006....

  I think Danj3ris hit the nail on the head.
  

• dauntlessreign said on Aug 21, 2006....

  hey! are you trying to be a looser?! come on! you don't want to lose anyone? right at the very moment you witness that scene, you lose both. confront them,you can't live with lies all your life. Remember there's life after your wife, if you can still work it out then fine, if not, move on and love someone who deserves it.
  

• whisper said on Aug 22, 2006....

  see , most people ask you to confront. so do it man.
  

• ayinkurie said on Aug 22, 2006....

  How could you. Because you don't want to lose any of them, you chose not to confront them? Are you nuts? Unless you think that if you confront them, you'll make her feels unhappy.
  
  Why don't you just caught them red handed. Caught them in action, that's the best. Surprised them completely. You don't need to ask anything then. They will explain the whole thing to you.
  

• luke said on Aug 22, 2006....

  Dump her & start a new life.It would be hard but it works.I would find a new friend as well.
  

• bkiran63 said on Aug 22, 2006....

  Thanks ayinkurie, I accept and I also thought the same situation, but what the prob, This is mostly happening when I work in the night shift so I am not able to catch them, or otherwise he will come to my house to see me and he wil stay hereitself, aftre I go into sound sleep, inbetween when I get up they are becoming normal.so still waiting to catch them redhanded.
  
  thanks soulcastians
  
  kiran
  

• ayinkurie said on Aug 24, 2006....

  Kiran,
  
  Maybe you can ask favor from her or your family member. If she dares to do it, its worth for you to leave her. She cannot accused you for making false statement. As her/your family member can be another eye witness.Best will be hers.
  
  The longer your relatives stay with you the better. Who knows, maybe this will may stop her bad habits afterall.
  

• silverwhisper said on Aug 24, 2006....

  kiran, i think you owe it to yourself first to tell your friend he's no longer welcome in your home, ever.
  
  this man is not your friend: no friend would do that to you.
  
  you aren't losing him: you're removing a poison.
  
  how you want to handle things with your wife, well, that's up to you of course. however, you probably need to find out how long this has been going on, whether you need to get yourself tested for any diseases and whether they were using any kind of contraception.
  
  ed
  

• whisper said on Aug 24, 2006....

  silverwhisper is absofuckinglutley right. that kinda guy is not called a friend. he is realy poison.
  

• anonymous said on Aug 30, 2006....

  Its entirely upto to you to do whatsoever you wish - its your life - she is your wife - you cannot allow this - c'mon!
  

• peedee said on Nov 07, 2006....

  My dear friend, let me tell you that one cannot rely on three W's. Wine,Women and Weather.
  When you saw her in action for the first time you should have questioned  her. But you did not do that so it was automatically presumed that you had no objection to it. Now that you have seen her 2-3 times I think you should ask her why she wanted to do that. Either you are not able to satisfy her or she
  does not like you. Don't confront her with a rod but use your brain to know the reason for this.In fact the biggest traitor is your friend who seduced her and not your wife. It is very likely that your friend is physically stronger than you and may attack you. Next time, you get him caught red handed and hand him over to the police.

• Vasker77 said on May 16, 2009....

  Either Shoot yourself or shoot both of them right at their head. Pick a choice

• gelius said on Jun 15, 2009....

  fuck off

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