Ok I really don't know how else to say this so I think I'm just going to come out with it. For anybody who's read my past blogs you may know that my husband and I have some issues, especially when it comes to the bedroom. Well here's something I'm not sure why it's happening, what it means and how to resolve it. So when my husband and I have sex and he finishes it is just a mess. However, it's gotten to the point now where his cum almost makes me throw up. Not the smell or anything, the consistency, and if I look at it. It just feels so gross, and to see it does the same thing. I never used to have this problem with it. But now it's just really bad. Like there are times that I have to shut my eyes to clean up if it's somewhere I can see it, or even shut my eyes and have him do it because I'm like frozen. I've never had any traumatic experiences at all in my life. The only sexual partner I've had is my husband and nothing truly traumatic there going on except bad sex anymore. Nothing that I can think of that would trigger this kind of a reaction. Does anybody have any ideas of why this could happen, what things could cause this, what to do to get around it (aside from wearing a condom each time, that does the trick but for various reasons wearing a condom each time just won't happen). Any suggestions or advice for me here?
Hegemone posted on Nov 03, 2008
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Confusedgirl12 said on Nov 03, 2008....
Do you think it's possible that you haven't changed, but maybe his cum really has? Maybe he has developed a medical condition he previously have. Have you talked to your husband about this? he might have noticed a difference as well. Or perhaps the bad sex is the traumatizing factor, your subconsciously feeling used and cheated and it appalls you... I hope I helped. -
Hegemone said on Nov 04, 2008....
Thank you, you've given me a couple different things to think about. So far as did his cum change or is it really me...well, let's just say it's me. Nothing's changed, I'd have noticed this since we've been together for 4 years, married for 2. I'm thinking the bad sex does have some to do with it...but I'm just not connecting it or something. I really need to do some research...or perhaps if anybody else knows about this ... what kind of foods can a guy eat that'll effect it in different ways. Silly I know, but I wondered about that too. Anyway, thanks again confusedgirl! -
OscarB said on Nov 05, 2008....
I have the same issue... it started when I started feeling like I wanted to leave my husband, which was years ago. I can't stand it... I feel dirty when he cums inside me so I don't allow him to. I have refused to go on any sort of contraception...I claim for health reasons and he believes me. I hate everything about it... the smell, the look, the idea of it inside my body.Just another perspective... -
Hegemone said on Nov 05, 2008....
Hmmm... that's an outlook...I know I've talked about it, but in my heart I don't really want to leave him...but I have been pretty unhappy with him. I don't have the problems of it being inside me .... it's anywhere outside of me, ON me that is the problem. The look and the feel of it are what bothers me, not the smell. So I dunno as mentioned to me, I'm beginning to think it really a lot has to do with bad sex, but who knows. I need to find out. -
TheNakedProfessor said on Nov 21, 2008....
Do you feel this way about all jizz, or just your hubby's? -
Hegemone said on Nov 21, 2008....
Eh, I don't know, could be all of it. I've only ever slept with my husband, and I didn't start out that way.
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