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Friends,

I've been trying to find the time and way to say this in a post for weeks.  Lack of words, lack of time .....both have played a part in my delay in telling you this. 

So, I have come to the point of just spilling it...............


On November 29th, my name will change. 
Sweety and I are getting married in our church in front of God, our families and friends. 
There!  I finally told you.  Hugs!

Good to see all of you!

Hugs,
Fearing




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  • uniquely-ironic said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Yay!!!!!  Congratulations!  This is so exciting!!!!  I wish you all the best.
  • destinydiva said on Nov 03, 2008....
    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!  nice to see you posting fearing xxxxx
  • MissMimi said on Nov 03, 2008....
    {{{{{{big hugs}}}}}}  I wish you a world of happiness.  Very happy news.
  • Lucytorial said on Nov 03, 2008....
    WOWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE a wedding! oh my...... now Fearing! details details details lovely lady!!!!!
     
    Congratulations!  I'm stoked to hear that!
  • fearing said on Nov 03, 2008....
    U-I, Thanks!  I am excited and nervous all at the same time.  I've been lurking a little here and there and caught a couple of your posts. 

    Destiny, Good to see you and thanks for the PM a few days ago.  I've been wanting to post but....well,  you know - planning a wedding is time consuming.

    MissM, Hiya!  I so so appreciate your good wishes!  A great big hug to you! 

    Lucy, Yes a wedding!  Isn't it exciting?  I will see what I can do about details for you soon, though this has been a long time coming.  The wedding date decision was quick but it has been a long'ish engagement. 


  • Lucytorial said on Nov 03, 2008....
    man fearing this is such wonderful news to hear from you!!! when is it happening???
  • fearing said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Lucy, it will be Saturday, Nov. 29th.  We chose that weekend because it is Thanksgiving here and we'll typically have time off from work to go somewhere if we want to.  
  • skald said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Fearing I am so glad for you. Doing this in front of god and friends what can be better? 
  • Lucytorial said on Nov 03, 2008....
    oh man that is soo coool with  K.
     
    Okay now whachya wearing??? I love weddings I swear I love them! it brings out the girly in me, the squeely girly girl.
     
    man i can't spell today at all!
  • gingersoul said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Fearing.......congratulations, girl!@

    I wish you all the luck and happiness you want.....:-)
  • Twylarants said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Congratulations!! Does this mean you won't be Fearless anymore?
    LOL!!
  • fearing said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Skald,  I am excited and yes, you know how important my faith is to me.  It is just as important to Sweety.  It is where our relationship was found and I hope and pray it will stay that way.  Keep an eye on your mail.  ;-)

    Lucy, I have a picture of the dress....sort of.  I will do my best to post some details as promised.  I'm a girly-girl too!  Twirly princess dresses  - sigh.   Don't you just love that?  It is what little girls dream of huh?    Your spelling is fine.  I'm simply tickled you are excited for me!  It adds to my excitement.

    Ginger - Thank you!  I'm so happy you stopped by.  You've been one of my cheerleaders the past few months during a particular scary time for me and this occasion wouldn't have been the same without you.

    Twirlypants,  You've been missed!  Thank you.  You always make me smile!  Hugs to you!
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Nov 03, 2008....
    OMG, hooray, fearing! :) That is such great news!

    ~Infernal
  • queenparanoia said on Nov 03, 2008....
    ohmygod!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! no wonder youre so scarce in soulcast!!!!!!!!!!! fearing congrats!!!!!!!!!!!
  • scipio said on Nov 04, 2008....
    Congrats!
  • ElijahElmore said on Nov 04, 2008....
    do post your wedding pictures next time
  • evil_twin said on Nov 04, 2008....
    You finally told! Congratulations :-) I'm so glad you stopped back in to share your news with everyone. I hope the wedding planning is going smoothly....

    -evil_twin LA
  • diabolicdame said on Nov 04, 2008....
    Congratulations!!!
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Nov 04, 2008....
    Joy oh joy! 

    [claps hands]

    So very happy for you and yours!  I'm beaming over here.  Really.  :D

    Can I come?  Can I come?  Can I come?  Please?!!  I'll be on my best behavior, I swearz! 

    When will we get to read more of your blessings and joy?  I've been gone for a while, but it seems that you have as well.  I require more details, lady. 

    We'll have to play ketchup soon.  :)

    Congrats again!!!  I wish you all the joy that is lucky enough to make its way to you. 
  • gingersoul said on Nov 04, 2008....
    Fearing...oh geez......please, let Grapey come to your wedding or he is going to get all dizzy for all that clapping......LOL.......even though.....between you and I ....i wouldn't count on him having a proper behavior.....;-P

    I am glad i have been helpful for you and i am very happy you will now have the reward you deserve....

    but.....seriously......you can't tease us in this way...

    PICTURES!!!!......clear 'nuff?...{hugs}
  • wombat said on Nov 05, 2008....
    Wow..I'm late to the jumping up and down party, but CONGRATULATIONS AND BEST OF LUCK!
  • fearing said on Nov 07, 2008....
    Infernal, Thanks for stopping by!  I appreciate it.

    Queenie, Yes, that is one of the reasons I have been so scarce.  Life for me is already pretty hectic with jobs and kids but adding a wedding to it has really made it crazy.  Thanks for being so happy for me.

    Thank you Scipio!

    ElijahElmore, I will post them after the wedding.  I have a few pics of the dress and some of the pre-celebration things.  I will try to do a post on with some of those soon.

    E_T, Yup, I finally got around to spilling the beans.  I still can't believe it is happening.  ;-)  Oh, and mom finally came around and "allowed" me to have it my way.  lol!

    Hi Diabolicdame!  Thanks!!!

    Grapey, Of course you can come but bring Ginger too.  I know you will behave.  Will you sing at my wedding?  Tell me where to send the invitation.  I do want to catch up with you soon - you've been busy.  I want to hear all about it.  I'm as equally happy for you and Ginger.

    Ginger - Lol!  Your comment made me smile too!  You gotta come with Grapey, not cause I think he won't behave but it simply wouldn't be the same without you both.  (And if he decides not to behave, it will make it that much more fun!)  I will be posting pics of the wedding and I'll try to do one in the meantime.

    Wombie, I'm happy you came to the jumping up and down party!  Thank you soooo much! 





  • gingersoul said on Nov 08, 2008....
    Fearing.......its a done deal, girl.......just tell us where....:-)

    Psst...and i hope he will not behave....;-P
  • fearing said on Nov 08, 2008....
    Ginger, Yes - a done deal in a PM.  Hope to see you there!

  • truthsayer said on Nov 13, 2008....

    Congratulations my dear!!! 

    Now, picture this...me standing outside of the church greeting your friends and family in a funny-ill-fitting-probably-never-going-to-wear-this-again-dress singing "One Hand One Heart" and doing my famous Wedding Jig, while polarheart tries to cover her ears and eyes at the same time (probably in a matching dress ; ) and your husband-to-be calls the funny farm to tell them that I've escaped...again ; ) 

    Oh yeah...and all the other gentle folk and nut cases from Soul Cast throw my entire life savings of rose petals and Tootsie Rolls at the passersby.  Is that even a real word? 

    Well, the point is, I can see why you felt safe enough to post this announcement on an anonymous blog...we don't really know where you live!  So this scenario can never actually happen!  Well, at least it's not very likely ; )

    Love you kiddo.  I am so happy and so proud of you.  He'd better know that he is getting a true diamond.  No rough spots.  Just a perfect sparkling diamond.  All things considered, you know : )

    Your forever friend,

    Truthsayer 

  • fearing said on Nov 13, 2008....
    Truth,  I almost called you by another name and then deleted it. 
    I could think of no better wedding present from you and Polar than being at my wedding.  I would LOVE for you to be there and sing........dance if you want!  I doubt hubby-to-be would call the funny farm since he has given up on me and sanity loooooong ago.  (I typed more here but decided it was a little too involved for an anonymous site so remind me and I'll tell you in email)

    As for knowing where I live......speaking of which, you should be getting a map to the church any day now.  Hope you can make it!

    love and hugs!
    Fearing
  • truthsayer said on Nov 14, 2008....

    I did.  Gotta email you.  Much to tell you.  Good things.  All special timing of the Lord though.  Can't say more here.  I'll fill you in later.  I hope you liked the word picture above...and that you weren't offended in any way : )

    Talk to you later.

    LOVE AND HUGS right back atcha!

    Truth

    hey...I almost typed my "other name" too!

  • fearing said on Nov 15, 2008....
    Truth, are you kidding me?  Offended by the word picture?  lol!  You know my sense of humor better than that!  It would only be funnier if it actually happened!  And I would love that!

    hugs,
    ............fearing

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