Nice guys do finish last. I say this because I always hear "nice guys" talking about how they finished last. The ironic thing about this statement is... you never hear about assholes finishing first. In the end three things happen. One, they get the girl but she finally snaps out of the retarded dream she can change the asshole. Two, the asshole fucks her over so bad the chick wants to slit his tires. Three, the chick stays with him, but in the end wishes she would of had enough brains to get out while the getting was good. The ASSHOLE never really wins. HEY nice guys, if you think you're going to finish last....you always will.  A bit of advice: find out what type of personality this chick your about to tackle is looking for. Type A or whatever....this should help you....