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Well my world came tumbling down yesterday...my boyfriend looked through my phone and saw the txts that were sent by my obsessed ex... So now he thinks there's something going on -- which there's not. He blew up and jumped to conclusions just as I knew he would, which is why i decided not to bring the problem to his attention.

I can understand his worry and frustration given my past with that loser of an ex. But I've told him time and time again of how committed I am to him, and only him.
If I put myself in his shoes, I would feel the same way. I think that's this is more my problem than anything else. The ex is bugging me not him.

My boyfriend is constantly worried that he'll lose my to someone else...How do I open his eyes to see that that'll never happen?

But what hurts the most is how torn and sad he was yesterday...and how he just sat on the couch speechless, staring off into space... :( ouch!


-- Damn my ex...All I want is for him to completely GO AWAY!!! --


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  • Scrubboy said on Nov 03, 2008....
    Block the old boyfriends number for hell sake!!  You can do this on any phone.  Contact your phone company about it. 

    Send the X a certified letter stating that if he continues to try to have contact with you of any kind you will contact the police!!!  Write one bad ass bitchy letter to him and show your boyfriend. 

    Then if this X continues to bother you call the cops!!!  Show the guy you are committed and mean it!!!

    Unless, that is, you really don't want the X to go????????
  • BlogTherapy said on Nov 05, 2008....
    You can do that??? I tried blocking numbers on my phone and ended up blocking every number. But thanks for the advice, I'll be calling verizon :)
    My boyfriend told me just that...to threaten the X (like how you did that); but i'm afraid of him and don't want to make him mad by getting the police involved.
    Thank you thank you thank you  For the Tip!
    And...I do really want him to go, and go away forever.
    I'll only go to the extremes with the cops, if he pops up in my city, until then, the phone block should do the trick.
  • BlogTherapy said on Nov 20, 2008....
    UPDATE: Not working. Called Verizon found out it's $15 to change my ******* phone number and to block a number it's a cost to me of $1.50. WHICH I don't think should be my obligation to pay, he! should pay me! for god sakes! Can't the dumbass take a hint... ?! 

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