• uniquely-ironic said on Oct 31, 2008....

  take the interview and see where it leads.  You're like me in that you over think a lot of things.  Take it one step at a time and it will work out the way it's supposed to.

• skald said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Yes go to the interview and see what comes out of it. Just like Uniquely said. 

• queenparanoia said on Oct 31, 2008....

  uniquely: your eright i overthink things sometimes... and yeha i'll tr that take one step at a time....

  skald: i will skald. thank you... ;-)

• Hegemone said on Oct 31, 2008....

  WHOA!  Stop....take a huge breath...slooowly let it out...all will be fine.  Go for that job, charm your ass off and do great.  To hell with worrying about your weight, you are who you are...ALL of you.  I've never seen you, perhaps I should study some previous posts...but I'm a big girl myself...I'm way overweight...feel blessed anyway.  At least you can be overweight, there are many who can't be, who can't eat...who are underweight.  I think of this every day and know I want to be healthy, I want to consume less so that somebody else might have what I gluttonly would have eaten before.  I'm healthy and happier because I'm doing something about it.  Besides, once you start working you'll be busier so you'll most likely drop pounds.  And anyway...you want to be in the food industry...a healthy looking business owner portrays good food is around.  Go you, good luck, don't let little things get you down...don't let people get you down...you're the most important, you're awesome and you can do anything.  I had to learn this the hard way...I'm still learning and practicing...if I can do it, you can do it!  can't wait to hear how things turn out!

• secretlife said on Oct 31, 2008....

  just go for it.
  GO FOR IT!!

• diabolicdame said on Oct 31, 2008....

  You can totally do this queen!! All the best.. go knock their socks off!!!   :-D

• cuppajava said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Hi - take the interview and see where it goes.if it means you have to start at the bottom of the chain and work your way up,then do it.the opportunity could be there - just take it

• Lucytorial said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Queenie ~ One little tip for your interview... walk in there, sit down and say it out loud very clearly.  "I'm sorry but I'm really nervous" It will ease the tension and you may find they'll be much nicer with their questions.
   
  You'll be fine, be honest if you don't know how to answer a question say it "I'm not sure how to answer that" They will rephrase it most often.  GOOD LUCK!!!
   
  I believe in you Queenie!

• IcePrincess said on Oct 31, 2008....

  You should go for it ...interviews can be very hard...i know because im NOT charming in any way so i come off as "cold"..thats what i've been told before..id rather be charming like you are ..it just shows how confident someone is!

  Do the interview....you can do it =)

• lionesss said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Hey queenie take the interview, go blow their sox off, charm them with your dazzling sharpe personnality, your a kind person with a massive futre in front of them hey the 1st step has too start some where, you go girl and good luck:)x

• cntlvmenuf said on Oct 31, 2008....

  You know what they say about courage? Its fear that has said its prayers. You good to go. Its ok to be scared, take that fear and go for that interview!
   
  Family can be a bummer when one is trying to save money, but I believe that the good that you continue to do for your family will come back to you ten fold. Its not gonna come from them, its gonna come from complete strangers. Right at that moment when it all hits the fan, when you are about to raise your hands up in surrender, an angel will come to your rescue.
   
  At your age you are more aware of yourself and of life than your peers. Don't lose sight of your dreams and your goals. You can do this!

• mobil said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Yes, you can do it...........you're the Queen remember?

• RollingC said on Oct 31, 2008....

  Go for it Queen....you can do it.   Don't worry about anything and just go for it.  Give your mom a percentage of what you make and that will show her that you're trying.  All parents lay a guilt trip on their kids at one time or another....don't let it get to you.
  You will make it.   :^)
  Rc

• queenparanoia said on Oct 31, 2008....

  hegemone: thank you!!! thank you very much. visit my last posts if you wanna see what i look like. and you know youre right. i would rather be healthy and be happy than those skinny girls that i hated. thank you!!!!!!!

  secretlife: thank you!!!! i will!!!

  diabolic: thanks girl!!!

  cuppajava: well that's my plan.  wanna start at the bottom first... ;-)

  lucy: thanks lucy. ive done that on my previous job. maybe i should get my charms back... ;-)

  iceprincess: thank you. i hope they get charms by me... ;-)

  lionesss: thank youlioness... ;-)

  cntlvmenuf: thank you for that. i'll always think of that about courage. thank you for the words. means a lot to me... ;-)

  mobil: oh i am... ;-)

  rollingc: yeah dont worry about her... ;-)

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