Dear Jessi B

 

I have been cheating on my husband lately with multiple partners. My problem is that I don't feel guilty. Is there something wrong with me?

 

NM

 

Dear NM,

 

Every person reacts to situations in different ways. Just because the "normal" reaction to being unfaithful in a relationship is guilt, it does not mean your reaction will be guilt. Your reaction is dependant on many different factors, including but not limited to: happiness, mental health, relationship status, media response, and other outside influences. If you are comfortable with your situation as it stands, my advice would be to embrace your feelings... accept them as they are and own them, they are your feelings and you have every right to have them. Are you broken? Probably not, but it sounds like a conversation with your husband is in order.

 

Your friend,

Jessi B.