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My grandchildren were playing all day out in the snow. Thor was however away two hours attending a birthday party in a mall. I am surprised that young parents are still hiring hall, in this case a play hall where children are kept while parents shop. Usually you can leave them there for some money and go shopping but this time the parents rented the place. Don’t they realize that we are in economical crises here now?

 

 

When I was bringing my kids up we had the parties at home and sometimes for hours and hours. I remember one party when the kids started coming at 10 am , They were supposed to come at 3 pm and the last kids went at 10pm.

 

I baked for the parties and did all that needed to be done by my self. I guess some parents today are too busy working and some of them alas just making money.

 

I know that all kinds of places have been rented for birthday parties. Swimming pools and all kinds.

 

I fetched Thor at 3 clock. Seems to me that parents have the parties early now to be rid of the kids early. As I said before our parties started at 3.

 

The mall was full of people. It is the same place where I went to the movie last Saturday. And then I could hardly find a parking place and there are many of them. Down stairs, upstairs in front and behind the house. All around.

 

I saw that all the restaurants were full of people. Do they not know there is financial crises I thought. I mentioned this to Pálmi and he said. Many people are in denial. Then people must not get too depressed too he said. This is what my husband who has always been so careful about money and has lived frugally said.

 

Tonight I had some chopped sausages, rice, and lots of veggies. Cucumbers and tomatoes grown in Iceland. Everyone was happy. Thor continued playing in the snow with Freyja and Daria and I thought it was so nice to call them in for dinner. Just the way we kids were called in when I was a kid. We usually went out and played after dinner and they did too. The only thing that was different was that our dinner was always at 7 but theirs at 6.

 

I am linking something that Gnawingdog sent me in a comment today.

I read in the paper this morning that each family will have 20% less spending money, that is for food and necessities that before. 



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  • quietone said on Oct 25, 2008....
    I am thinking that maybe all the people are out in the mall and restaurants just trying to enjoy themselves when they can  to relieve some of the stress from the week.  It is nice to see the kids playing in the snow and having a good time. I am glad the snow is there and not here (yet). 
  • diabolicdame said on Oct 25, 2008....
    I guess it is good in a way.. not to get too depressed and go on with life as always.. you gotta have some fun. Plus maybe this means things may not be as bad as they seem on paper? Anyway I'm glad the kids had fun.. and snow.. wow.. it will never snow where I am but it is getting cooler and quite pleasant these days..
  • mobil said on Oct 25, 2008....
    I really don't like that people think they have to give their kids a big wow party some fancy place.
     
    All my birthday parties were at home and it was just family there, a couple cousins and I never even wanted anything more.
     
    We're having scrambled eggs with weiners cut up in them and cheese melted in there too, for supper tonight. I don't know what you would call it, but I like it haha.
  • skald said on Oct 25, 2008....
    Quiet. Yes, and maybe the stress from the past weeks since the 6th.
    I do like it when the kids can stay out all day playing. That is so natural and good.
    It is supposed to warm up here soon and then the snow will go. I hope.
    Dia.  Yes, people must go on with their daily life and also have fun. I always wanted it but restaurants here have always been very expensive. I can only afford them when abroad. The situation is grave but as this is just the beginning people have  not yet changed their ways. The going will get much harder.

    It is fun in the snow. I wish you knew that fun, Still it is good that it is getting cooler and more pleasant over your way. Thanks Dia.
    Mobil. Yes, and 7 year olds. I think this is maybe because people are lazy. They buy the party and as I said they don't want to have the kids for too long. From 1 to 3 is fine. We also had a very few family numbers and the closest friends of the kids.

    Your supper sounds fine. About what 'oclok co you have it. uaually.?
  • CayenneMan said on Oct 26, 2008....
       Hello skald, I would never spend a plug nickel on renting a place or throwing a birthday party for the kids in a restaurant. I know it's becoming the norm over here in the States but not with me. I'd rather throw a birthday party right here at the house with all the bells and whistles. I agree with you I think alot of parents just don't want to be bothered by the mess and hassel of it all. Sure there have been times where I've set up pizza parties for graduation celebrations and the like but thats a little different. Just keep you're chin up and keep the faith skald the economy will repair itself but it will take time. All those folks you see spending money at the mall and at expensive restaurants are helping to keep the economy from totally coming to a stand still but the way I see it alot of foolish spending will come back on them if their not careful. We try to have our dinner around 6:00 pm. I will never have a dinner meal without a glass of wine. Continue living life to the best of your ability skald and avoid placing to much concentration on economic issues you have no control over. Things will get better they have to. Well take care of yourself skald it been nice talking to you. Stay warm and dry skald and be carefull during these tough times the criminal element could be on the rise.  
  • skald said on Oct 26, 2008....
    Caynne.  It is always good to hear from you and thank you for your talk with me. I agree graduation celebrations are a different matter.

    Yes, the economy will repair it self and this nation will have to do a lot of work mending it and we will. We, have seen worse times, not in my life but 1918 was a terrible year and maybe in my time when we lost almost a whole village in snow avalanche. There have no lives been lost only money.

    Yes we have to keep the wheels going. I will continue life to my best ability and now as far as it goes nothing has changed yet for me , except I lost some savings.
     
  • mobil said on Oct 26, 2008....
    I didn't understand your question skald?
  • skald said on Oct 26, 2008....
    Mobil.  I asked you when you have your supper. At what time? lol 
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 27, 2008....
    yeah people are in denial when they spend too much especially if they know that they are in crisis. but i'm glad that you guys are not.... ;-)
  • skald said on Oct 28, 2008....
    Queen.  Thanks we try to live sensibly. 

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