Sometimes a good fight deepens the love - as long as it is approached with a deep sense of mutual respect and a genuine desire to listen to the other person's perspective. Sometimes, it's good to fight for love. In fact, I wish my ex-husband would have fought just a little bit harder instead of rolling over and playing dead. At least I would have felt as though I mattered ... Taran and I fight but my faith comes in knowing there is always love that outweighs the anger, and never any venom or meanness in our words. Being able to fight with him in a productive way has been very freeing for me and has really given me a genuine faith in the ability of our relationship to withstand the human realities of miscommunications and misunderstandings, to know that I can make myself be heard, and that even in a disagreement, my opinions are welcome.
Wishy you know how I see it.. and I told my husband this.. I said the only time I will yell and shout at you is when I feel you aren't listening to me, knowing this should help you to stop and listen so that I don't shout.
Luce.. thats the only kinda sex you have?! Sorry.. I'm not buying that!! Heck that ain't enough to throw out your back, now is it? hehehe.. but yeah.. fun fights for sure! :-D
i never used to like to have sex after fighting. that's not true anymore. not that i've been fighting, mind you, but a little aingst makes for good passion does it not? ;-)
It is harder to share pain than it is joy. Sometime with the help of friends and family, we endure our pains. But sometimes we have to stand alone. But if you maintain a postive outlook and endure cheerfully, we will find more company along the way....read entire post8 comments