yeah i believe in symbols... i guess its a part of me since i'm catholic... but recently the symbol that has a big impact to me was the rosary... you see back when i was working i lost it... i got frustrated after that...kinda made more depress and i feel lost... that rosary was special to me cuz my aunt bought it from egypt... anyway, when i lost my job i found it! it's just inside my bag... just to show that God was always there... i just didnt find him hard enough... well that's what i think... ;-)
As Jewish as can be I must say, symbols are an active part of my life, and I am glad they are. I do believe that symbols are to tell us and the world around us who we are, where we belong and what we stand for - but some times they are holding the power of our faith.
Let me explain.
When the pharao declined to release the Jews from Egypt, God punished the Egyptians over and over. The last time was the death of the first borns. Moses was told that God does not want the Jews to be punished, so all the Jews must mark their doors with red paint, so when the night falls and the angel of death comes, all the Jewish homes would be untouched. Also, it is written in the Torah that we must have the word of God on our doors (forehead and arm too, but that is done when praying only). So a good Jewish home has something called the MEZUZA on the doors, which is a little rectangle shaped box with a very specific blessing in it. The blessing must be hand written, and it is highly important to place it in a way our tradition teaches us. This is, for example, much more than just a symbol. People actually believe that the blessing in it is so important that when things go wrong in a family's life, and they go for an advise to the rabbi, the first thing he would say is to check all the Mezuza's of the home, and replace them if needed.
After my divorce I was also told to get rid of my wedding ring, and if possible all jewerly that connects me to my ex. Selling it did not make sense, since the money I'd get for it would still conect me to the past, so I exchanged them all for other jewerly. Of course I did not get the price they have really worth, but all that did not matter. I must say, I am sooooooooo over my ex and the bad feelings he used to be able to cause me! I am no longer at urge to argue with him, and I am at peace about my divorce and my relationship with my ex. Does it have anything to do with the jewerly? I don't know. But even if it was a psychological action to get over things and let my past behind, the fact that I could assosiate a subject with the connection between my ex and I helped me to get a closeour.
I wear a Star of David around my neck ever since I was a teenager. It represents who I am, where I belong to, and what I believe in. I would have a very hard time to hang a cross on me, even just as a fasion statement.
I hang a "CHAMSA" on my bag and on my walls, because it is said to protect from evel eyes. A chamsa is a shape of a human hand with the five fingers held together creating a shield. Chamsa (or hamsa - the ch represents that throat sound only arabic languages have) actually means five in Arabic, and of course it represents the five fingers.
All of our holidays are filled with symbolic foods and elements that all are there to simply remind us of the teachings of our past, and the teachings of the Book. We do not worship these symbols as "gods", but understand that if one can assosiate a symbol with an element, than it can help us, humans to connect with it's importance.
For example, honey us a natural sweetener that is created by nature (and by that I mean bees). We use honey every time we want to highlight the importantce of something good to come: the Jewish new year cannot happen without apple deeped in honey, and all kinds of foods with honey in them to represent the sweet year we are hoping for; children get a taste of honey when they first start to study the Torah and the Hebrew language to understand that it is something sweet, something good.
Food just by it's taste can symbolize feelings, which is well know by the Jewish religion.
It is forbiden for us to have tatoos or damage our bodies in any other way. If a Jew dies and has a tatoo on his body, it is actually cut out of the skin before the body is being burried, so it is given back as pure as it was received. However, most people I know have a tattoo or two, including myself. I don't know if it means anything to me, I just like the looks. I think it shows some kind of a personality.
Not to mention jail tattoos, right?
Should I have to decide on one single symbol that represents who I am - I would have to say, that I'd rather have something less common, something that represents me as an individual. I don't know what that would be though
This reminds me, in pre-school in Hungary chldren have their own lockers where they can store their personal belongings for their daily needs. Since children cannot read at that age, the day cares/ pre-schools have a symbol system to help them recognise their lockers. My sign was a baby stroller, but uthers had things like apple, ball, lollypop and other simple and child friendly subjects. I am a mother today, yet I can still clearly see the symbol assigned to me.
Yes, I think if I'd have to have one thing as a personal symbol, I would have to go with the baby stroller. Just because no matter how old I am getting, deep inside I am still that little girl who naively wondered to the world. I think that my understanding, my experience and my actions might have created the woman I am today, but my whole being was given at that very age, when I got identified as the baby stroller. Funny, but I still have a picture of me from that time hanging on my MIRROR, because I just love that little girl who is smiling back at me.