• uniquely-ironic said on Oct 14, 2008....

  what should you do?!!!  Go meet him!  Keep in mind that he may not be looking for a relationship, but unless you go you'll never know.  As for who's better looking than who, don't give it another thought.  If he's any sort of quality guy he's looking at YOU, the whole you, which is a smart, funny beautiful young woman.

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2008....

  uniquely:awwwwwwwwww i'm blushing.... anyway, i'm gonna meet him if he has some vacant time. who knows right??? lol... ;-)

• wombat said on Oct 14, 2008....

  Just show up smiling and happy to see him, and let nature take it's course.  Why pass up seeing a friend to see how it goes? And yea...what UI said!

• uniquely-ironic said on Oct 14, 2008....

  exactly!!!  At least this way, no matter how it turns out, you won't wonder for the rest of your life what might have happened.

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2008....

  wombat and uniquely: okay girls... ;-)

• dazed_and_confused said on Oct 14, 2008....

  i agree with all of those stated above. =)
  
  You don't want to keep asking yourself the what ifs right =) Good luck.
  
  Cheers
  

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2008....

  dazed: hey youre still awake!!! well let's just wait and see dazed... hehhehe malay mo.... ;-)

• mobil said on Oct 14, 2008....

  Stamp his dance card Queenie

• destinydiva said on Oct 14, 2008....

  WHAT????  QUEENIE WHY ARE YOU EVEN QUESTIONING THIS???   GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!   :-)
  
  go in with no expectations only to have fun..that way you cant get hurt..  have fun and give us all the details!!!!!  :-) xx
  

• moonriver said on Oct 14, 2008....

  queenie -- meet him, just be yourself, and (like you said) enjoy the moment even with butterflies wreaking havoc on your stomach. if he's still an ok guy like he was in college, then keep him as a friend, get his number, add him to your friends list (in ym, facebook, friendster, whatever...), and take it from there. and, whatever happens, know in your heart that you are the best... :-)
  
  

• winterslight said on Oct 14, 2008....

  it is scarey to open the door to a ex love in your heart.  i wish you well that he may be the one. but if it dont turn out to be. just think you have him in your life again. so i guess its a win win. you could win the boy or have your friend back in your life..
  gl..

• travelr712 said on Oct 14, 2008....

  heya pqdoll, good luck with that guy.

• pulse_780 said on Oct 14, 2008....

  You should... if you feel you should.  Always follow your heart.  Never think ill of the way you are or look, because the most unsexy thing one can do is show that they don't like themselves.  If you don't like you, how can he.  I think give it a shot.  And beauty will find a home in your heart no matter what.

• T's_Pet said on Oct 14, 2008....

  you will hate yourself if you don't . . . as the others said - be yourself and I think you both will have a blast. I am actually meeting up with an old college friend (ok, boyfriend) this week. this will be plantonic but he's still a great friend so I'm not advertising our meeting. I already have the butterflies. . .

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2008....

  mobil: you know back in college i was one of his dance partners... ;-)

  destiny: of course i'm gonna blog it!!!! lol!!!! hehehehehehehhehehehheheheh well i dunno when exactly were meeting but i'm sure i'm gonna tell you guys about it... ;-)

  moonriver: i have him on my friendster... you know my problem is that i'm kinda chicken shit about this... i mean i wont get nervous because he's my friend but i dont know... maybe what i feel for him would be different now that were different... but i hope he'll be much cuter now... lol... ;-)

  winterslight: that's an excellent advice... at least i'll have a friend back... ;-)

  trav: thanks trav!!!

  pulse: aww thank you... youre right... gonna think beautiful if i want to be beautiful... ;-)

  T's_pet: kinda scary isnt it??? but i hope the butterflies will go away!!!! good luck with you meeting him!!!! ;-)

• secretlife said on Oct 14, 2008....

  you better go meet him!!!!

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2008....

  secret: i will!!! ;-)

• fallen-angel said on Oct 14, 2008....

  you go meet him girl!!!!!
  and stop thinking  you're not pretty, that's the most unhealthy thing for a girl to think about. hehehe!
  oohh! by the way im from the philippines too. =)
  

• butter1970 said on Oct 15, 2008....

  Just like women men find self confidence very attractive .If you see him and act like you dont think your worthy it probebly wont happen so just be happy,be yourself and act like hed be lucky to even have a chance.I have a feeling youll do fine.

• scipio said on Oct 15, 2008....

  Yes, go ahead without expectations.  It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. And tell us all the "juicy"  details.

• gentlepie said on Oct 15, 2008....

  qp! go for it girl! i mean, nows your chance db? :) play the arms ready to comfort a broken heart kasi nagbreak na sila. :) and don't entertain negative thoughts, just go for it, pero wag ka din namang mag-expect, basta tamang landi lang hahaha. i mean, have fun and go out as friends then see what happens from there. :)

  goodluck.  

• diabolicdame said on Oct 15, 2008....

  Oh queenie.. just go and meet him and see where it goes.. dont overthink it. And that will not stop you from acheiving your dreams.. thats just an excuse! Oh and you rock by the way.. he's be lucky to be with you! Don't think about where it will go and if there will be a relationship.. just go and meet him. And have fun.    :-)

• CreativeWoman said on Oct 15, 2008....

  Go meet him.  Just be yourself and see what happens.  You're very beautiful.  :-)
  
  CW
  

• queenparanoia said on Oct 15, 2008....

  fallen-angel: hello my fellow filipina!!! well if he has time i will meet him!!!

  butter: good aadvice! thank you i will be confident... ;-)

  scipio: oh i'll save the juicy stuff for soulcast... ;-)

  gentlepie: ohmygod!!!!!!!!!!!! youre back!!!!!!!!!!!! whahahahahahaha i miss you!!!! grabe lalandi na ako to the max!!!! ;-)

  diabolicdame: oh i will meet him if he has time... ;-)

  Creatice: thanks cw... ;-)

   

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