• hjärtaochsmärta said on Oct 12, 2008....

  After reading my blog the last one youd like some "good advice" from is me I'd guess, but.. actually I concider myself beeing a pretty good person, perhaps something of what my heart has to say can make it a little easier for you. But first, I have to defend myself. I didn't say it was ok what I did, I didnt expect people to tell me that what I did was ok. I just asked if it was cheating ore not. Whatever you do that is hurtful to someone is wrong, I am more than aware about that.
   
  What do you meen about beeing trapped? Why are you trapped? If you married someone and then think your trapped I would say that marrige is wrong. At the same time you made apromise to eachother, for better ore for worse.. You have to remind your whife about that, stand up for how you feel, say that you promised her to be there, no mather what happend, and now you need her to be there for you. Dont say it as if you blame her, as if it is her falt. Try to make her understand that this is something you fel and you want to find a solution, perhaps the problem is something you and her couldnt see, perhaps it is something else, something both you and she need to take a deeper look into. I could be more than wrong, absolutly. But try to see it from her point of view to, maybe shes in deny just becouse shes afraid of loosing you.

• CrazyLarry said on Oct 13, 2008....

  I am sort of trapped because I would have a hard time living alone because of my disabilities.  I have times I function almost normally, but other times I barely function.I also would have to live on just my disabilities. I would also have to live on my disability check which is not huge. Our marriage does have problems, but my wife will not discuss them.  When I try I hear " If that is the way you feel you know where the door is" which is the same as saying I will divorce you before talking about the things that are wrong.  We have been married 12 years and I have never cheated.  How do you get a partner to see you need more from a relationship and talk about it when they don't want to?

• curezilla said on Oct 31, 2008....

  There are cures for things such as MS that they won't tell you about. I'm a cure hunter. Tell me what you need and I'll hunt untill I find something.

• CrazyLarry said on Oct 31, 2008....

  There is no diagnoses as to what I have.  That is why they call it chronic fatigue.  They don't know what else to call it.  The same with the pain.  No idea why I hurt so they treat the pain.  I have been seaching for 8 yrs and I am pretty good at finding things too.  Somethings just do not have an answer.  Thanks anyway.

• lfbno7 said on Nov 01, 2008....

  I wonder if it has to do with a past life. I read about this guy who had a constant pain in his stomach, the doctors found no reason for it and referred him to a psychologist who specializes in hypnotism, and the shrink told him to go back to a time when the pain first appeared - and he started describing being bayoneted in the gut in World War One.

• Me-Myself&I said on Nov 02, 2008....

  Hello. *smile* huh.... trapped, i can relate. 
  i have epstein barr virus, chronic fatigue syndrome. once upon a time i was giving myself vit.b shots every week to keep me on my feet. then it was only once a month. i have no immune to anything!
  i go thru periods that i hurt from head to toe.
  i beleive in my herbs and exercise and calling all angels!!!! *smile*
  so i wish you all the good this world can give you.
   
  oh.... Welcome to SoulCast! i hope you enjoy your stay here in the neighborhood! take care ~see ya

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