ok....i go up to my granma cematry weekly with a friend to tidy up both dad,granma grave,,firstly did my dad's plants some winter pansies and flowered shrub with daffodill bulbs to see them throught xmas time where the xmas wreath wil be placed, so then i went up2 my granma grave ''now she hasnt a headstone just s wooden cross and my grandad bout a small flower pot in marble iwth enscription of granma love your husband, id been going up every other week to maintain their grave, When i got there her cross had snapped at the base where it had been for 8yrs it had fell on my potted basket with primroses in , god i was so glad my g.dad wasnt with me as it was a ryt mess, on her ;granmna; last anniversary we agreed to club together and by a cheap one, well it never went further than that even thugh i was pushing her for her OWN MOTHERS H.STONE. so feel out with her as she knew dam fine she had no intention of doing anything, so i called her this weekend to tell her about the cross, her response was horric to me and she crossed the line by what she said, oh iv not got money to waste, do you know how much they cost, well the amount of times she has been on holiday im sure she cud afford a little something ,, then she said that granma's grave has nothing to do with me its not my buisnes to and only think about what i want,she never goes up to the grave of her mother or husband,if i didnt go it would just be a piece of grass with a wooden smacked into soil and the dead plants that she''mother'' takes up on anniversarys,its a disgrace she chooses to go like she does, grandad is still here but i know her game she is waiting for him to pass away that cud be another 10yrs, so if left it would be a mount of weeds,with the cross lying on the ground,,
now i will take any crap my mother throws at me as i have for past 41yrs but to be so negative and to say my granma grave is nothing to do with me, im soory she crossed my line, my granma was my mum, i was very close to her i love her more than my own mum, but no she couldnt stop there she carried on, how she has to buy grandad bits of shopping oh dear i wish my dad was here no she has his money going on holidays, we all put too so my dad had a stone, but she slipped up and said it was paid for by his personal savings, so what did she do with the money we gave her £450,, kept it to go on another holiday, anyway she went to my daughter telling her what had happend while she was at work, why,, well she now knows she isnt welcome in my house and not welcome to see my son on his birthday''his words''.................so now if its got nothing to do with me then i wont go up full stop, if its non of my buisnes, you know its like she has taken something away from me it really hurt and upset me what she said but i went that bit further and said she will end up a lonely old women with no1 around her, she flicks back dnt think so other way round wen i get my way,,,now you know 1 reason why i SH at times....................................................
