I found out recently that my husband was unfaithful about three years before we were married, it was a one night stand with one of my best friends who was later a bridesmaid. Neither of them told me before the wedding that this had occurred. In fact when a third party had mentioned that it had happened I confronted the both of them, and it was vehemently denied.

I found out last night that my husband's older sister is following the family tradition of being a doormat. Her husband carried on a five month affair with a co-worker.And she's staying with him and having their third child. Their mother put up with infidelity. And every other child has cheated on their spouse or significant other. I'm one of the few significant other's that left. Even their grandfather lived in a trailer in the backyard and his ex-wife would help him get ready for his dates.

Is infidelity just more prevalent than I had ever thought, or is there something wrong with the family I married into? I know the incident happened over six years ago but to be lied to about this and other things doesn't lend me to trust him. To find out now that he had lied about things over the last eleven years, repeatedly, and least lets me know that I wasn't crazy all the times I didn't believe him. It really is nice to know that you weren't crazy.

Are there infidelity free relationships?