I am sometimes gob smacked at what people think they can say…
After I had my son nearly 5 years ago… I really struggled to loose the baby weight but this year I decided that I was going to sort this out… my mindset was right and I have lost 18kgs and came down 4 sizes… admittedly this is almost double what I needed to loose but I am feeling really good now and I like the way my body looks.
I am sick and tired of people commenting on my weight… I actually had somebody sit me down today…very somberly…lean in really close… and whisper that he knew I was putting my finger down my throat as he has counseled and supported many woman like me in the past. Considering the fact that he is actually extremely overweight, I wanted to suggest that a puke or two a day would probably do him good as he clearly has greater weight issues than I do.
I find it hysterically funny that when I was chubby the extra slice of pizza I was shoveling down my gullet or the copious amounts of crap I ate on a daily basis was quite acceptable. There was no concern over the health risks associated with the lifestyle I used to lead.
I know this probably seems really trivial in the grand scheme of things…but I am sick and tired of the comments. I would never advise a person who was over weight to not eat because they are too fat… or check what they have eaten for the day… as I have had people ask me.
Don’t get me wrong…I know the comments come from a good place and the intentions are good, but enough already… it’s just really boring!



