• hotaka said on Sep 27, 2008....

  Sometimes you choose to be alone because it's easy for you to handle. I have many dear friends but I rarely see them - once a year, once every two years. My job has me talking with people everyday about what's going on in their lives so they become my outlet for conversation. When my wife is away I come home alone and spend my time at home alone. I am alright with that. Too many friends around would be suffocating. Maybe that's a bit like you too?

• butter1970 said on Oct 17, 2008....

  I see so many posts on here about things just like this. I tell them all the same thing. Self confidence will take you sooo far in life. Sometimes when your down its really easy to stay down instead of fighting your way out of it. Youve got to want to become a part of life around you or you will continue to slide. I went through some rough addictions and all my true friends tried to help but eventually I drove them all away. It has taken a long time but Im just now gaining thier trust and friendship back.Now when they see me they see a self confident upbeat person and they want to be part of that.....good luck and god bless

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