• destinydiva said on Sep 22, 2008....

  yay!!  you posted!!  hiya :-)
  
  I'm divorced now..but if i had known what i know now at the begining would I have married him...absoloutly no way no how no never!! :-) xx

• woman said on Sep 22, 2008....

  At almost 60 and 37 years of marriage this is no small question. If I hadn't married him, I would not have the family I have and I would not trade them for the world. If I had not married this man, I would not have become the strong woman I am. If I hadn't married him, I would have missed out on some special times. But. And this is a BIG but. If I had not married him, perhaps I would have known what it was like to truly be loved. To be respected. To be cherished. It's been a trade off and I try not to look back or do "what ifs".

• chrisevans129 said on Sep 22, 2008....

  Absolutely!  In fact, i think he turned out better than he was at 25!!!!

• uniquely-ironic said on Sep 22, 2008....

  No, and I corrected that mistake 5 years ago.  I do also recognize that if I had been wise enough to stay single a few more years it might have worked later in life.

• skald said on Sep 22, 2008....

  Yes. I think so. 

• Lucytorial said on Sep 22, 2008....

  Yes, indeed.  For me I didn't get married for 7 years, thats one long engagement.  I enjoy all of the new things I learn about my husband and yes I am still learning.  Even if they yuk! or I think that they are odd or I disagree I still enjoy the learning about him.

• donnaaaaa said on Sep 22, 2008....

  ohhhhhhh hell no!!

• wishyouwerehere said on Sep 22, 2008....

  I was already married by the time I was 25.  It ended really badly, but our first years together were so beautiful that I do indeed believe I would repeat history, even though it destroyed my heart.  Some things are just meant to work a certain way.  The aftermath has changed me for the better.

• Twylarants said on Sep 22, 2008....

  Nope.

• secretlife said on Sep 22, 2008....

  hmmm...i was already married by then too- 
   
  i wish i knew more what he was like before we got married.  i could have saved myself alot of years of misery-  i think if we'd lived together for a year i might never have been married at all!  lol
   
  but looking back now, after 24 years together, i think that no matter who i married i would have had challenges to face-  marriage is that way- 
  and besides, i'm used to him now!  LOL

• travelr712 said on Sep 22, 2008....

  which time?

• RollingC said on Sep 23, 2008....

  I really and honestly don't know.
  Rc

• Kuni said on Sep 23, 2008....

  Definitely.  Despite any issues, we were meant to be together!

• scipio said on Sep 23, 2008....

  Thanks to all of you for your replies & passing by my post.
   
  Sometimes life has to be seen  through the rear view mirror to see what you are leaving or left behind. 
   
  Wishing you all the very best in whatever marital status you  all are in & hope you find the happiness that you  are looking for.
   
  Life was never meant to be a bed of roses - but whilst the music is playing let's keep on dancing.

• Lucytorial said on Sep 23, 2008....

  Life was never meant to be a bed of roses - but whilst the music is playing let's keep on dancing.

   

  That sentence is marvelous!  I hope you can here the music and keep on dancing too!

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