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Okay I just got home from work, its 7pm and when I left the house this morning it was a fucking mess!
 
I mean, there were dishes to be done, the floor needed a going over and a general tidy up but I ran out of time this morning.
 
When I got home everything was done, dishes, floor, candles lit, dinner organised and ready to cook...
 
Is it because I am happy - that is the real question.  It goes deeper, I sometimes believe that we attract that which we put out.  I have always felt that unease in life creates more unease if we aren't actively trying to create ease. 

So what are your thoughts on this? Am I attracting wonderful things because I feel so good about life?  or is it just that I have a freakishly wonderful husband.


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  • Battycat said on Sep 20, 2008....
    I think you must have very wonderful husband :-)
    I also think you reap what you sow too. Enjoy!
  • bluegum said on Sep 20, 2008....
    it's called pulling your weight and it is the stuff marriages thrive on .so how did you feel when you walked inside ... blue
  • hotaka said on Sep 20, 2008....
    I'd say both. You have a freakishly wonderful husband because you attract good things to you. I hope you said expressed your thanks to him. I love it when my dear K says thanks to me for doing something to help her out. It makes me want to do more and more.
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 20, 2008....
    you sounds positive today lucy!!! i love it!!! keep it up!!!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Sep 20, 2008....
    I'm going with freakishly wonderful husband, cause if the other is true I'm screwed.
  • secretlife said on Sep 20, 2008....
    well, i do agree with you that there is a relationship between what we put out and what we get back.
     
    but you do have a really sweet husbanad!  hopefully he got lucky last night!
  • skald said on Sep 20, 2008....
    yes, wasn't it just wonderful to come home to this.?   I think you must deserve it and  that you must have a good husband too. Call it that you are attracting this, if you like to. Have you been reading the Secret? 
  • wishyouwerehere said on Sep 20, 2008....
    This sounds so terrific Lucy - I hope you enjoyed every minute of it.  Yes, it sounds like you have a great hubbie, but I am sure he must have been attracted to something wonderful in you as well.
  • travelr712 said on Sep 20, 2008....
    so, did the mister get laid last night? ;-)
     
    i can't begin to tell you the wonderful things that have been happening in my life in the last couple of months lucy, but i believe it has much to do with my new found positive attitude, so i'm sure the same must be true of you. i can definately say that if my wife were walking around happy and content all the time, and she'd had a busy day and i was home, and there was much to be done, i would want to show my appreciation and affection for her by doing all those things.
     
    and then maybe i'd get laid. ;-)
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 20, 2008....

    Blue ~ when I walked in the door my mouth dropped, it was an Ohh Myyy Goooddd moment, with plenty of thank yous in many different ways.. ohh yeh he got what he deserved!

    Batty ~ I do believe it helps you know.

    Hotcakes ~ Oh its wonderful to be thanked.

    Queenie ~ Its a habit I'm forming, positive and happy.

    Uni ~ You are not screwed... not yet anyway! te he he Hubby is very thoughtful.

    Secret ~ He said that he wanted it really relaxing when I got home.. thats sweet!

    Skald ~ No I haven't read that book but I've been cottoning on to my level of happiness of late and it seems to bring more if thats the secret maybe I don't need to read the book?

    Wishy ~ **Blush** thank you.

    Trav ~ You are a smart man, its almost like shifting a part of your behaviour/brain and then whamooo all of these really lovely things happen.  Small but satisfying.

  • travelr712 said on Sep 20, 2008....
    yes exactly lucy. but you still didn't say if the mr. got laid. :-P
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 20, 2008....
    Mr Torial got his just deserts! (grinning - he had a lovely sleep...........after)
  • travelr712 said on Sep 20, 2008....
    LOL good on ya mate!
  • woman said on Sep 20, 2008....
    That's the stuff women dream of Lucy. As to why, I wouldn't spend too much time on that, I'd just kiss that fellow that loves you.
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 20, 2008....
    Ohh Women - I do all the time!
     
    Trav ~ MAAAAAATTTTE I'm true to form!
  • travelr712 said on Sep 20, 2008....
    you always are lucy.
  • RollingC said on Sep 20, 2008....
    He did it because he loves you (and he also wanted his reward afterwards) :^)
    Rc
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 20, 2008....
    Roling ~ Its big brownie points thats for sure...
  • cuppajava said on Sep 21, 2008....
    I think its got a lot to do with the hubby - you look after him and he looks after you...

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