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I have been having some thoughts and a few discussions with friends about sex. BIG O is illusive. I have heard that some women have these without touching their clitoris. Is this true? You can have an orgasm from just the penis? This has never happened for me. I mean I enjoy sex but I have never had an O that is … shall we say internal. If I am not (or he is not) stimulating my clit there is no chance of me having an O.? He does not have to be inside of me for this to happen in fact its better when he is not. As I write this it occurs to me that’s a little weird. Does this mean I am really a lesbian, no need for a penis? Oh that is to a place I really had not intended to go. How did I get to be 43 and not know these things?  Does the internal O feel differently than the Clit kind? Where do you go to get this kind of information? Is there some kind of instructional videos… and no porn does not count as instructional video.

 

Also what is up with anal sex? I mean it’s a pooh hole what is sexy about that. I secretly wonder if men who seek this are bisexual or just denying that they are gay. Then again I hear some women love this and get great pleasure from it. Frankly, it’s just a pooh hole to me and it is a one way freeway, do not enter. Am I a prude, or just sexually unaware. Maybe I should start a poll like SW and ask the women of SC what kind of O they have. I don’t know but if I am missin out on some good sexual experiences I’m gonna be really pissed.



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  • secretlife said on Sep 18, 2008....
    namy:  go to a bookstore-  or an online bookstore - barnes and nobel, et,al-
    there are many books written on the topic of sex, orgasm, etc.
     
    i've had orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation and those with what i'd call indirect stimulation-   with a penis inside.
    do they feel the same to me?  yeah, for the most part, although i will tell you that the kind i crave the most are the kind where he's inside me.  it could just be an emotional thing, but those are the kind i treasure most.
     
    there are a zillion books that describe techniques for achieving this type of orgasm. 
     
    as far as anal sex, i think that it depends alot on what a person finds erotic.  and there's a whole universe of people that find all kinds of things erotic that you may never have thought of. 
     
    read girl.  read.
    sex is an exploration....you have to explore in order to figure out what does it for you.....
  • ALIENated said on Sep 18, 2008....
    
    What you need is an ALIEN. Someone who can fuck you and suck your
    clitoris at the same time. I see now why I have had so few complaints.
    (Do not try to envision that. It does not work the way you think.)
    
    And I could not agree more on the anal deal. I have been wondering why
    there is so much of that on the internet. If someone wanted that, they
    should go to prison, which is one of the main reasons I am a model citizen.
    
    
  • namyogrl said on Sep 18, 2008....
    Secret - I guess I will have to go hang out at the local B&N. Honey is gonna love this exploration stuff.
     
    Alien - Ive never had an alien (my head hurts now trying to invision the whole suck fuck thing ) You make a good point about being a good citizen, but sometimes its so fun to be bad.

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