Meemsie, my darling friend, I totally understand. I am sorry I "missed" the post you are talking about, but I just wanted to say that you are not alone. I also came to a point where I dont live up to other people's expectations anymore. . .its just too much work as you said. . .and I, like you, dont want to do it anymore.
So, Meems, just relax and be YOU. Accept where you are "at", my friend. I am thinking of you and send you big warm ((((HUGS)))) and lots of LOVE.
Polar xoxoxoxox
MissMimi, my dear dear friend, please just relax, rest and revive. We all love you immensely. We know you are safe. That's all that matters. You don't need to give us anything.
(I really wish I had an akle to offer you like quietone. I've looked everywhere and I cant find one on me. Oh well, grab a leg here too - just watch the delicate parts!)