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There are times when I ask myself, do I really need to explain myself to other people? Or do I even owe people an explanation?

This morning I came to the office quite decent than my normal outfit. I was wearing heels and khaki pants instead of my usual denim pants and flat shoes. The reason, because I was trying out my new shoes and I feel like dressing up. However everybody started speculating, well in a funny and joking way that I dressed up because of an interview for a possible new employee for our company whom they were saying has a crush on me. When I tried explaining the truth, it seemed quite an excuse to them. Well, of course if I were on their shoes, I would have thought of the same.

When someone called me at my cellphone the other day asking if I was on my way home and I ate and all concerns like that, everybody speculated that I was talking to my boyfriend, if not one of my suitors, but the truth is, I am just talking to my guy bestfriend who is always concerned for me btw. When they ask me if its a guy or a girl, I said a guy but its not what you think, and the reply that I got was, "yeah right, we believe you". But of course, these were all in good faith and did not mean to offend whatsoever, and of course, I took no offense by this.

One thing that they also speculate was then everytime that I was about to come home quite late, I text a boyfriend and ask permission that I was going home late. Of course, this is another half truth. Yes, whenever I will come home late, I text someone, but not a boy, rather my landlady because there are times when other tenants would lock the main gate, and unfortunately, it can only be opened from the other side, another fool proof security measure. When I try to explain, all I get was "okay, we believe you".

This evening, when my landlady asked me a favor and she texted me, and I decided to come home earlier so that I can do that favor, everybody speculated that the reason why I arrived this morning clad in more-than-my-normal attire is that I have a date and that is why I am leaving earlier than usual. Of course, I just decided to shut up and let everybody speculate and have fun, plus it really does wonders to my reputation. =)

I think people find it hard to believe the ff:
  • that I really don't date around that much
  • that I don't sleep around
  • that I also say no to alcohol
  • that I don't bring men to my apartment
and so much more. =) I really just find it sooo funny. Sometimes, I just don't try to explain because really, its not that harmful. A little lie never hurt anybody? Right right? Plus, it really gets tiring explaining. And also, people would always assume that you are on the defensive. =)

Cheers,
J




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  • Lucytorial said on Sep 16, 2008....
    Sounds like your work colleages are a bunch of idiots! with boring lives, immature little shit heads!
     
    Ignore them, I'd have fun with their attitudes to be honest, lure and bait them into making total fools of themselves.
     
    I hate it when people do that, they do it to me as well.  Sometimes Dazed I feel like dressing up! people then say "wheres the queen?" or if I'm wearing my jeans, riding boots and cow boy hat they say "so wheres your horse?" I just want to punch their stupid faces in.
     
    However I don't, I smile a derisive smile and ignore them, that pisses them off more than saying something would. 
     
    Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups, you are not fucked up ergo enjoy yourself, be yourself and don't explain to anyone what your life ethics and morals are they wouldn't understand anyway.  **hugs**
  • scipio said on Sep 17, 2008....
    It's only when the other person walks a mile in a YOUR shoes will they realise their folly. Best thing is to ignore and do the things you like doing.
  • dazed_and_confused said on Sep 17, 2008....
    Lucy. Yes, what I do is that I just smile and let things pass. More often than not, I laugh at them in my mind and tell myself, if they only knew the truth! =)

    It is okay though, I am always game to what they are saying. No hard feelings on my part. Besides, explaining just means more effort, and as long as the information that they say about me is not damaging or even libelous, then I'll go along with it.

    Thanks for the hug =)

    scipio. Yup, live and let live as they say. Besides, if I would show them that I am angry, I would be the one who loses in the process. =)

    As I've said, I just find it funny when people assume wacky things about other people. It just seems that either they are projecting, or probably fantasizing that they should be living that life that they assume that others are living.

    Cheers,
    J

  • queenparanoia said on Sep 19, 2008....

    we can't help it if your a goddes of beauty and all the people around you are jealous dazed... hay grabe talaga....

    i dont know why but some people just don't know how to mind their own business!!! hay naku maganda ka lang kaya inggit sila!!!

    if i were you just let them... let the mysterious side out of you... just let people talk...

    intindihin mo na lang... (understand them) we can't help it if your fans are curious about you... lol... ;-)

  • dazed_and_confused said on Sep 22, 2008....
    yeah, I was thinking of the same thing. Let them be mystified :) I mean no harm done right? :>

    Cheers
  • dazed_and_confused said on Sep 22, 2008....
    by the way, I am not the goddess of beauty. I'm just a girl who happens to stand out in broad daylight because of my appearance, because I'm a mestiza amidst our people =)

    I don't think they meant any harm.


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