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Dear Kevin,
 
I've known you since I started teaching dance at your program, eight years ago.
You always had a smile on your when I came to your classroom and said, "Time for dance!"
You were always one of the first out the door.
You loved the Beatles and you could sing all of the songs from The Sound of Music.
 
Do you remember when I used to say, "Not the Beatles again!"
You would always laugh and ask for your favorite song, and I always relented.
You loved to dance!
 
I can still picture you moving your arms and doing those Elvis karate kicks that you liked to do.
I can't remember you ever being unhappy.  You never had to worry about politics or the economy.  I know you were sad sometimes, but it wasn't very often.
 
I remember seeing a change in you last year.  You seemed more confused and I had to rub your palms to open your hands so we could dance together.
Downs Syndrome coupled with alzheimer's was so unfair..........and then the diagnosis came.............leukemia.
 
The last time I saw you, you were in a your wheelchair half asleep.  When I played your favorite Beatles song, you lit up like the sun coming out from behind the clouds on a rainy day and, oh Kevin, how I enjoyed our last dance together.
 
They told me you passed away yesterday, and I felt like I had lost a very special friend.
You're the fourth friend I've lost this year.
 
I'll miss you Kevin.
 
Your very good friend and dance partner,
Pickers
 
P. S.- When you see Rosemary up there, ask her to dance!  She's as much fun as you!
 


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  • MissMimi said on Sep 12, 2008....
    I'm so sorry, Pickers.  {{{{hugs}}}}
  • botoni said on Sep 12, 2008....

    I'm so very sorry Pickers.  Loosing one of our special friends is a genuine loss.  I'm glad you have such wonderful memories of Kevin and Rosemary.  May they dance in peace and joy.

  • secretlife said on Sep 12, 2008....
    aww pickers.....i'm so sorry you've lost another friend.
     
  • Twylarants said on Sep 12, 2008....
    Oh, Pickers, I'm so sorry you've lost another friend. The tributes you write to your students are so heartwarming....they're as lucky to have you as you are to have them.
    You're a good friend, P.


  • gingersoul said on Sep 12, 2008....
    I am sorry for Kevin, and for you as well.  Losing a friend is always a tragedy.
  • Fallyn said on Sep 12, 2008....
    that was so beautifully written pickers.
    i'm in literal tears.
    he must have been a beautiful person.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Sep 12, 2008....
    I'm so sorry pickers.  Kevin sounded like one of those people who is a ray of sunshine.  Your tribute was touching.  I hope in heaven he dances like Fred Astaire.
  • pickersplock said on Sep 12, 2008....
    Guys, you'll have to excuse me if I don't visit this post too often...............
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 12, 2008....
    Oh pickers... **am tearing up can't help it**
     
    How sad, I sometimes wonder though that it is we that feel all the pain of death.  Dear Kevins probably running amok, dancing, laughing and haing a ball (I do hope so)
     
    It always has the same effect on me though, tears, releif which is selfish because I still have my hubby.
  • Battycat said on Sep 12, 2008....
    Oh thats so sad pickers (((((((hug)))))))
  • FutureGoddess said on Sep 12, 2008....
    Pickers - I am sorry about your loss, but happy for heaven's gain.... I hope that Kevin is dancing around with all the greats up there!  While virtual hugs are okay, I wish i could be there to hug you personally and say: "You are amazing Pickers, you changed this boy's life!" 
  • lfbno7 said on Sep 13, 2008....
    wahhhhhhhhhhhhh sniff sniff
  • hotaka said on Sep 13, 2008....
    At least he won't need the wheelchair up there. Do your soft shoe shuffle dance.
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 13, 2008....
    this really put a tear on my eyes... he's a better place now... and having a grand time with the best dancing partner.... thanks for sharing this pickers...

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