im a 19 year old, I have not had sex so far, everytime I do any heavy pettin with my bf, I already end up being torn and sore just by fingering. We even tried sex but we couldnt make it work. I dont think its the lubrication, but perhaps very sentive skin a small vagina. Once i even bled on the outside by a small scratch, which healt with difficulty. Is this possible, has anyone experienced this?