• Mamie said on Sep 08, 2008....

  will you please stop yelling at my friend like that? Here is the flip side...yep, there is another side to the story, so you get to choose which one you listen to....here we go:

  1. You can never count on anyone outside of yourself.  They WILL walk away, or tell you to GO away, especially if you need them.  and the beauty of it is: you don't NEED anyone or their love, what you MUST do #1 is love yourself. I have a new saying: I complete me. Period.
  2. Apologize at the outset.  You know you’ll fuck it up – if you haven’t already done so. Nobody's perfect and there will be plenty of times we stick our feet in our mouth. Yuck, I hate the taste so I am learning to think before I say what I am thinking...um, no...everybody always thinks THEY are less than other people...the "big" lives we think the other people live, is rarely true, but mostly it is a fantasy that we have for them, in order to make our lives seem worse. I have a new saying: I am not a victim, and I am not sorry. Sorry! No, scratch that last word:)
  3. Do your best, but remember it will never be good enough. Yes do your best and stop minimizing how great that best is...I am great! You are great! I have a new saying....we are on the verge of greatness!!
  4. You are ugly: in mind, body, spirit and soul.  Hello!  Everyone else can already see it. Nobody sees shit. God made you perfect in everyway and you will see it as soon as you stop hating what has happened in your life. You may hate the deeds, but you can't hate the little girl it happened to, she is innocent. Pretty. Smart. Talented. Spiritual. Friendly. Worthy. I have a new saying....we are beautiful, deal with it! :))
  5. You are wrong!  If you think otherwise you are stubborn, insolent and obviously really fucking stupid! um, about this one....um, you are wrong...I'm just sayin....A s to the other things, we are not stubborn, insolent or stupid. i have a new saying: we are Taurus!
  6. You may have feelings, but they are irrelevant! Even you don't believe that. All feelings count even in horseshoes and wait, how does that saying go? OK, I have a new saying: feelings are the symbols of what kind of vibes we are sending out and the same will always come back...so we atttract what we think of, ya see? So I have a new saying....you can BE, DO AND HAVE WHATEVER YOU THINK, ACT AND WANT...DREAM BIG!!  no, bigger than even that!
  7. It is ALWAYS your fault! Yes, we are the grown ups and it is always our responsibility. *sigh, yes we make bad choices sometimes and that is why God gave us a brand new day, every single day! I have a new saying: CHOOSE AGAIN!
  8. *NEVER* spare your own feelings.  They have no meaning – only the feelings of others should be spared. If this is the case then others should be sparing you yours all the time. You can't ignore others feelings or your own...it is a fine balancing act. I have a new saying: I lied, I don't have a new one for this.
  9. If someone else is hurt – feel guilty – you either caused their hurt or you let it happen. everybody hurts, and very, very often. If you are the cause say you are sorry, if they do not accept your apology, then their pain is not about you, it is about them. If you watched something happen to someone, it is ok to say, I wish I could have helped, but I could not.
  10. You were not, are not, and never will be a decent person heh, likely we all have a little skeleton, so don't ask and don't tell!
  11. You do not deserve to be alive, so you should feel lucky that you are…. that is God's job,not ours so try not to control that...I know of what I speak...thankfully it is just not our job!
  12. You have no control, only responsibility. control is an illusion. To find out that we have no control always feels like a dying is occuring. Reminds me of the tom petty song :Freefalling...that is what we are all actually doing. he big responsibility here is to let go of the illusion.
  13. You are not a good person and you cause bad things to happen to good people. I refuse to believe it, even evil people have someone who is madly in love with them...think about 9/11....not one article about all of our loved ones lost said in the article: and that guy was a real ass....there is goodness in everyone, I for one can be more patient ....with myself as well as others.
  14. Expect yourself to fuck up! yep, we are human!!
  15. Expect nothing from others, everything from yourself! yep, we are awesome, who else would we have besides the awesome women that we are!! love to you!!

   

   

• pickersplock said on Sep 08, 2008....

  I think you should listen to Mamie!

• vacantmind said on Sep 09, 2008....

  Mamie...you are awesome.
   
  I couldn't agree with her more. Especially,

• vacantmind said on Sep 09, 2008....

  Especially "I complete me. Period."

• Mamie said on Sep 09, 2008....

  you are my friend and i am sending you love.....smile....m

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