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Soo Sunday I woke up in a funk.  I was all upset and contemplating the idea of never meeting anyone and basically living alone (sans a man) for the rest of my life when my cell phone beeps
 
The One:  Sea World Today?
Me:  When are you guys leaving?
The One:  5 minutes Ago
Me:  Let me ask CJ if he wants to go
Me:  He says yes
 
10 minutes later
 
The One:  Change of plans.  He decided to do something else
Me:  Have Fun
 
How the heck do you invite someone to go somewhere and then switch it up and say you changed your plans????  Is he crazy or is it just me??
 
So anyways I decide since CJ is all excited about hitting up Sea World that we will go anyways.  And as we are getting gas for the drive
 
The One:  He doesn't know what he wants to do.  Chargers game or Sea World. 
Me:  We are going to Sea World since CJs mind is set on it.
The One:  Hit me later maybe we will do both
 
At this point I am beyond hot and I think I must be living in the twilight zone...because only stupid a** stuff like that happens on television.
 
After 3 hours at Sea World my curiosity got the best of me
 
Me:  End up @ the game?
The One:  Sea World...Just got off Atlantis.  Where are you?
Me:  Eating ice cream by Sesame Street
 
So I get up to get some napkins and who just happens to be standing there?  The One and his kid.  I say hi to the kid and walk back to my table.  They follow and as the kids play he tries to chit chat with me.  But I'm mad because how do you invite me out, then change plans, then end up at the same place you invited me.
 
The kids end up getting on some rides together but I'm noticeably distant and not really keeping up any type of convo with him.  So as we head for another ride he says that they have to get going.  CJ and the kid say there goodbyes and I say goodbye to the kid as well.  As I am about to walk away he opens his arms like he wants a hug.  I oblige and walk away without looking back.
 
He's crazy and I'm the one they want on medication
 


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  • blondee0718 said on Sep 09, 2008....
    Wow.  Talk about mixed messages.  Seems this guy doesn't know what he wants.  What happened to not wanting to hug you in front of his kid?  Be weary of this guy...
  • secretlife said on Sep 09, 2008....
    blah!
    and you broke down and gave him a hug!!!
    i'd have left him standing there with open empty arms-
     
  • Ronnie6676 said on Sep 09, 2008....
    Blondee -  I think you are absolutely correct, he doesn't know what he wants.  Which sucks because I want him to want me....
     
    Secret - That was my intention but I'm weak...trying to be strong but still weak
  • secretlife said on Sep 09, 2008....

    by giving him a hug, you gave him the message that everything was ok, when everything wasn't ok-

    i have teenagers, so i'll give you an example from my week-

    my oldest started college a few weeks back and we've been communicating alot thru IM-

    Friday she told me i was "nagging" her about her schedule-  and she was going to put me on "ignore".

    I turned off the messenger and didn't turn it on until yesterday AFTER she called me to ask if she hurt my feelings.

    I told her "yes", and rather than be ignored by my own child i decided id be less 'available' to see how that worked.

    she said she was sorry and asked if i'd turn my messenger back on-

    sometimes you have to take a hard stand in order to get the true meaning of your feelings across.

     

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