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Little Daily's First Day of School
 
The excitement started on Monday, the holiday, where she was asking loads of questions about Kindergarten!
 
What will it be like?
Will I finally get to take the bus tomorrow?
Will the bus be fun?
Will I have friends there from my last school?
Will my teacher be nice?
 
Questions similar to those listed above lasted all day and all night for us.  It was after dinner, before her bath, when I was asking her what she wanted to have for lunch at school.  Just then it hit her...she really was finally going to school.
 
"MOMMMMY?  The day after tonight I go to school?"
 
"Yes!  You get to take the bus too.  You must be so happy!"
 
"Mommy, do I REALLY have to listen at school?  I don't ever have to listen to you at home.  I don't know if I'm ready!"
 
She was right, she hardly listens to me.  She listens to Mr. Daily.  When he says "No" to something like eating an entire chocolate cake, she'll come find me and ask as if she didn't ask her Daddy.  If I say "No" she will then ask for a tiny piece and of course I'd give her a tiny piece if she's eaten all her dinner and hasn't had "junk" for quite some time. 
 
So, she doesn't want to listen at school and she's already fearing the fact that she won't get away with the "double ask pray" talk like she does at home.  When bedtime came around 7:30, she already started with the "I Can't sleep" bit.  I told her it's okay to be excited and stupidly told her to close her eyes and dream about what her first day of being a big kid taking the bus to school will be like and what she's going to learn in class.
 
I was in a sleep state for...ummm...10 minutes, maybe, when I heard the first cry! 
Doesn't this figure!  I was actually tired, and not having a night (or days worth) of insomnia and I got the first cry.  She wanted to know if her bus would be purple because she wanted the yellow bus like all the other kids ride on and her dream put her in a purple bus.  I assured her it would be yellow and left the room.
 
For the remainder of the night/morning Mr. D. and I were being constantly greeted by a little face with a sounding and looking like image of Cindy-Loo-Who,  holding her hello kitty doll, at our bedside.  She gave up on the screaming and just kept coming in to ask questions.  I got to a point where I asked myself why I was even bothering with trying to sleep.  The constant interruption of that sweet voice was, in my opinion, doing me more harm than good. 
 
I did end up going to sleep at the suggestion of Mr. Daily.  It was 5:45 AM and I had to be up and get her ready at 7:45 AM so I could possibly get in a good 2 hours.  If he didn't wake me at 7:45, I would have slept the day away.
 
She rushed in my room after Mr. Daily gave her breakfast and got her ready to tell me it was time to go to the school bus.  My Parent's met us there. 
 
We got to the bus stop and she was SO excited, I think she almost tinkled her pants.  My Dad started crying and she asked "Papa?  Why are you sad?" and he just told her that it was a happy sad that his little "hockey puck" was a big girl now going off to school on the big yellow bus. 
She said, "Don't you worry Papa, I won't kiss a boy yet.  My Dad told me I'm in time-out forever if I do.  Can you believe how mean that is Papa?"  OMG!  That just made my Dad sob and laugh!  My Mother couldn't even believe it.  I could.  The poor man just said goodbye to his first born grandchild over the weekend when she went off to college and now he's putting his little "hockey puck" on a school bus.  He has such a bond with Little Daily.  When he was in the hospital last year with heat problems (several times) and had his pacemaker implanted, Little Daily let him know to "Grow up" that she did it when she was a baby!  LOL!  I really think she's what got him through it. 
 
We went to the bus stop just before 3 PM.  It was running late.  When it came, she just bolted off that bus and unfortunately there was so much traffic we could hardly hear what she was saying, about school, as the cars and trucks were driving past.  She wouldn't talk about it again when we got home either.  Just that she had the "BEST DAY EVER!" and her favorite parts were lunch and recess!  While she was in school, I baked, FROM SCRATCH, cookies just like my Mom used to do every now and then when I was in school.  She LOVED it!  I had told her that my Mom did that for me when I was little.
 
Oh, and the bad news kids...that bratty psycho kid from her birthday party that is the grandchild of the daycare provider is in the same school!  Thankfully, they are NOT in the same class but do play at recess together!  She does bring home little "Bratty girl" talk and I immediately know she was with that child during lunch or recess.  So far only one time for lunch...thank GOD!
 
I think I survived only because she was happy and I was more concerned about my Dad's sadness.  He loves her to death and remembered me, also the youngest, on my first day.  Him and I were best friends when I was little and remain very close, nothing's changed with our relationship.  I love them both!
 
Daily


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  • Twylarants said on Sep 05, 2008....
    Awww! I love this story, Daily. My eyes got all leaky when I read the part where Little D told her Papa that she went through heart surgery as a baby. She is a little treasure, isn't she? Lol at not having to listen to Mommy... that's too cute!
  • botoni said on Sep 05, 2008....
    There you have it Daily.  She is all grown up and trying to figure out a way to kiss the boys without getting grounded for life.  Thanks.  She is a constant source of amusement and amazement to me.
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Sep 06, 2008....

    My heart got all warm with this post, dear Daily! :_ )

    Such a sunny, lovely images of you and your family :)

    Have a relaxing week-end with Mr D and little D

    <3333333

    papery ~


  • skald said on Sep 06, 2008....
    Awww Little Daily is really growing up. I can't believe that she really went on the school bus by her self.
    So the Bratty kid is there too. Good she is not in her class. I really can't believe she I mean Little Daily is already such a big girl (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))  What a delight she is too.
  • hotaka said on Sep 06, 2008....
    What a great read, daily. I can see I have lots to look forward too. I love the part about her not listening to you at home and about the purple school bus. I can imagine the humility of being picked up in a purple school bus and not a yellow one like everyone else's.
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 06, 2008....
    awwww i love this post daily!!!!!!!!!!! and so sweet!!! i'm glad little daily love her first day of school!!!! ;-)
  • secretlife said on Sep 06, 2008....
    finally THE POST!!!
     
    And so it begins for you......
    and for little "D".
     
    There will be good days and bad days- remember that.
    There will be lots of tears-  because like your dad (who's already there...) over time, we just start to melt.  The happy stuff  mixes with the sad- as she becomes independent of you, you gain something and lose something-  ahhh, it starts now for you.
     
    this is such an exciting time daily.  i'm so happy she had a good first day of school, and hope she has many many more!
  • mOOn_platOOn said on Sep 06, 2008....
    I like it that you and your Dad have stayed so close. I see that happening with my son and I, too. We're so bonded.
     
    Ah. memories. Mine just turned 12....the last Tween Year.
     
    Where's my baby boy?????? I miss my toddler, my 6 year old, my 8 year old...I miss all of him!!!!!
     
    Watching him grow is exciting, too, because he's a fascinating person. But he was so precious as a little boy...WAH!!!
     
    It reduces me to blubber. Nothing else does. When he graduated from kindergarten I was so proud of him. The tears were hidden by my tough-guy sunglasses.
     
    Why? I guess because I saw him grow from a helpless infant. I'll never forget the first time I walked into preschool and saw him sitting in a chair in a row with other toddlers, paying attention to a teacher. I felt a welling of pride then, too. I knew how far he'd come.
     
    We're rather amazing creatures when you study us from the start. I was blessed with one of the greatest kids in the world, temperamentally and health-wise. I'd almost be afraid to try again for fear of disappointment.
     
    Now I've sent him off to 7th grade. Yeesh. And yes, I've had "the talk" with him...in stages.
     
    Congrats on another milestone daily. Enjoy it all. Every single moment.
     
    - OO -
     
     
     
  • CopsExtrodinaire said on Nov 15, 2008....
    I hate to admit this but the night before my daughter started kindergarten I sat on the couch and cried like a baby. Such a set of emotions I never knew I was capabable of. It's sort of the beginning of the "letting go", and I was aware of it and knew I could not stop it nor turn back the clock. Sooo many moons ago but still so clear in my mind. (I've waited to respond to your blog as I did not want the vultures to descend and make a mess of it just because they hate me).

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