This post is not really BDSM related, but it does have something to do with my sex life.
First I just wanted to say that my husband and I have lost 63 lbs between the 2 of us. The result of this change have been nothing but positive. The energy, stamina, and intensity of sex -- even vanilla sex -- has increased drastically. I still have about 95 lbs to lose, but the positive changes I'm seeing motivate me to keep going.
I am very happy with the direction our relationship is going. I am so proud of him (and myself), and as we both continue to lose more weight, I have no doubt we will incorporate more BDSM to add even more spark to our new "skinny" sex life.



