• secretlife said on Sep 05, 2008....

  stop texting him.  let him get in contact with you first.
  you are absolutely right phie, and it's not fair to have to wait 45 mn for a response when you're supposeably having a conversation.
   
  if he's interested in the least, he will contact you.
  and if he doesn't then you're much better knowing.
   
  don't torture yourself.  let him be tortured for a bit....

• quietone said on Sep 05, 2008....

  I was going to say the same thing as secret.  All I would add, is don't ever think or say anyone is "far too good for you"!!!  That is just not true!

• uniquely-ironic said on Sep 05, 2008....

  Let him prove he's still interested.  It's hard to sit and wait for it, but the alternative is that you chase him around and that makes the dynamics of the relationship change and it's not in your favor.

• blondee0718 said on Sep 05, 2008....

  Phie...sounds like you are far too good for this boy.  The fact that he hasn't offered any explanation for the change in his demeanor, or apologized for making you feel bad, coupled with the fact that he's so damned inconsiderate in regards to returning messages makes me think this guy is a selfish prick (no offense).  You should never have to submit yourself to silence when you feel you aren't being treated with equality or respect.  Stand up for yourself Phie.  If things don't change soon, I'd t consider if this person is still worth all of your angst and frustration. 

• phie said on Sep 06, 2008....

  thanks guy's im taking all this advice and putting into action from now, unfortunately i went out last night and text him first as i was a little out of myself shall we say but once again after two messages he seemed to fall off the face of the planet!

  Quiet/ unique/ secret im sure your advicee is gonna fix this problem one way or another, thanks you are all becoming my online mentors!!! but it is very very hard to sit around and wait to see what happens, and it gets more and more upsetting...

  blondee i can see where you are coming from with your impression of him being a prick but this behavious is sooo strange coming from him, and its not just me that thinks that its people that have known him for years, i think thhats what worries the most!

  i seem to bring out the worse in guys when it comes to relationships, im not sure what its is because i try to learn from each one and modify how i act but still the guys seem to turn...

  i dont know im soooo confused and angry with myse;f for letting this get to me so much and having such an effect on my mood, i thought id grown stronger but at least im battling with it.

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