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today, while i was in work my three week shoes side was peeling... holy shit!!!! i only bought it three weeks ago and it's peeling!!!

no more cheap shoes!!!! unless it's cute!!!

kinda frustrated about it cuz the original version of the shoe would cost me money...

oh well... i'll need to buy new ones...

and yeah speaking of money... again i need some advice on how to manage it... well you guys know my problem is... sometimes i buy stuff on impulse... and yes i think of other sfirst... which leads me sometimes to buy stuff for them and leaves nothing on me...

sucks right?!??!?! i need to learn to manage money!!!

anyway, to change the tone of this post cuz i feel like i'm sounding negative today...

there something happened today that seldoms happen to me... and that is...

i enjoyed my day... it was not perfect but nevertheless i enjoyed it... i laughed, i smiled, and i dont care what everybody thinks!!!

i kinda like this attitude of mine... maybe its because i just blog out my frustrations yesterday...

taking out the negativity in me and then taking in the positive into my life...

it's great!

but sometimes i can't help picking up the negative vibe of everybody else... i hae it cuz sometimes it makes me negative too...

but it's okay.. i will try to be positive... no scartch that... i will be positive.... no no no...

i am POSITIVE!!!!

keep smiling soulcast!!!

 

and...

 

keep on blogging!!!



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  • uniquely-ironic said on Sep 04, 2008....
    I'm not really good with budgets, but one thing I've learned about impulse buying is that if you plan for it, you spend less.  Set aside "fun" money to be used for these buys and when it's gone, you're done.
  • quietone said on Sep 04, 2008....
    ah, now that is the spirit queenie!!!!  as you can see from your own expeirence yesterday... negative people aren't fun to be around.. all the time.  both negative and positive are very additive.  being positive will attract the same in others!  :)  As for money, I say keep it where it is hard to get at.  Keep just enough around that you think you might need and put the rest out of sight/out of mind!  :)  have a great day!
  • kruuyai said on Sep 04, 2008....
    Glad to see you're enjoying life, queenie.  Managing money..hmmm.  Well, you could open a savings account in a bank.  Then deposit all the money that you want to save as soon as you get paid.  Once you spend the cash that you kept out, it will be a pain in the ass to have to go to the bank and withdraw money (don't get an ATM card), so you'll be less likely to do it.  If you do withdraw money, ask for large bills, so it will be difficult to get change, and you will also think twice before breaking a large bill.  It's so easy to spend coins and small bills.  Hope this helps.
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 04, 2008....

    uniqely: i'm actually planning to buy a new cellphone... so maybe i'll set aside money for that... ;-)

    quietone: thanks quietone! it's actually night time here!!! good night!!! ;-)

    kruuyai: thanks for advice kruu!!! ;-)

  • woman said on Sep 04, 2008....
    You ARE a positive person queenpanoia! As far as money, it is more difficult for some peope than others to manage. I personally feel that you pay your bills, you save something reasonable out of every check, and then do what makes you happy with anything left over. And Queenie, it is a lot easier to manage money when you have a lot of it. (note about shoes-always buy the cute ones but sometimes buying cheap shoes is a waste of money. I cringe when I pay a lot but they last forever! Night and sweet dreams.
  • skald said on Sep 04, 2008....
    Keep on smiling and being positive. Don't you buy any bad shoes. Good shoes last longer. 
  • secretlife said on Sep 04, 2008....
    every week, put a set amout of your money away in savings-  what's left over is what you can spend, lend or give away.
     
    i'm glad your mood is better!
  • travelr712 said on Sep 04, 2008....
    one way to manage your finances is to discipline yourself not to impulse buy anymore. here's a trick to accomplish that. if you see something that you want, something that strikes that impulse, look at the price, and then turn around and walk away. come back three days later and look again. if you still want it and you need it, then you can buy it. but you'll probably find that the impulse is gone.
     
    glad for the elevated attitude qpdoll :-)
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 05, 2008....

    woman: yeah it's a lesson to me now!!! i'm gonna invest on the quality! not the price!!! thanks for ddropping by!!!

    skald: thanks dear skald! hope you have a nice day too.. ;-)

    secretlife: well i have a culinary school to aside money for... but i will save up for good!!! ;-)

    trav: ive been doing that!!! well it's just  hard cuz i'm a girl... ;-)

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