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As I said on my profile, this is where I break all of my own rules---all of them, that is, except for not using profanity. You'll excuse me as I rant and rave, vent and spew, groan and moan, complain and explain my pain. This is the black hole where I let it all out.

Normally, I'm a mild-mannered kind of gal, who believes in charity, generosity, excellence, good manners, and all of the highest ideals. I try to be nice to everyone, but once in awhile I have my moods and outbursts. 

I'm Asian-American, married with a toddler. There's an old Chinese saying that one is not supposed to air all the family's dirty laundry, so to speak, but I think that if you never share what's on your heart, whether good or bad, you can't possibly be vulnerable or form close relationships with people.

You may not like me so much after reading all of my negativity, but that's all right. I have no close married girlfriends, so this blog is my therapy; which means, of course, that the posting frequency may vary. I usually don't react very strongly to things every day, but then something will happen and bam! I just have to write my reaction.

Oh, about the name of this blog---I chose "Bad Asian Mom" because this is so contrary to what I'm supposed to be like---nice all the time, polite, polished, perfect, etc. Pardon me as I act out a little.




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  • secretlife said on Sep 01, 2008....
    lol i can't wait to see how a bad asian mom acts!
    welcome to soulcast! 
  • Twylarants said on Sep 01, 2008....
    You go right ahead and rant your little heart out, dear. There aren't too many people more negative than I am, so welcome to the Rant family.
    Twyla Rants...lol!
  • day2day said on Sep 01, 2008....
    hi bad,
    Glad you're here. We could use some more ranting and raving around here.  This is where i come to do it and it feels good to get things off my chest. Keep it up.
    day2day
  • badasianmom said on Sep 01, 2008....
    Wow, thanks for all of the comments. I wasn't expecting them, but I really appreciate it. Glad to join the rant family! Now I'll have to go check out all of your blogs, too!
  • OscarB said on Sep 02, 2008....
    YAY... looking forward to all the noise!!!
  • Battycat said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Welcome to Soulcast, looking forward to all the ranting :-)
  • Battycat said on Sep 02, 2008....
    looking forward to hearing the rants - carry on, welcome to soulcast :-)
  • Battycat said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Welcome to Soulcast, looking forward to all the ranting :-)
  • Battycat said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Welcome to Soulcast, looking forward to all the ranting :-)
  • Twylarants said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Oh drat, now I have to take my posts out of storage...someone wants to read me! What?
    I have to post something new, too? 
  • gingersoul said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Bad Asian mom??? ...I am all ear....lol....
     
    Welcome at SC.....:-)
  • bluegum said on Sep 02, 2008....
    g'day bam  let it rip we all so nice and gentell here and diabolical .   H.A.N.D.
     
    blue.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Sep 02, 2008....
    let 'er rip bad asian mommie!!!  You will find kindred souls here.
  • badasianmom said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Hahaha, you all crack me up, and thank you for the welcome. How did you find me? Is there a way to search for new members here? I'm sure I'll figure this all out...

    Twyla, I didn't know that your posts were in storage, lol! Better dust them off now!

    I find it hard to believe, with all of these comments, that Soulcasters are a quiet lot. I look forward to visiting all of your blogs.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 02, 2008....

    Welcome to our little corner of insanity.  :)

    Enjoy your stay, and as always, keep your seat belt securely fastened, and don't forget your crash helmet.  ;)

  • badasianmom said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Thanks, MissMimi. BTW, I love the quote in your profile! My mom used to tell me same kind of thing, to have what's called in Chinese "a golden mouth." In other words, to not open my mouth unless I had something really important to say.

    The problem is, you can't make very good small talk that way. ;-)
  • beyondtheveil said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Welcome to our corner of the world - be looking for you. 
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 02, 2008....
    Late as usual! welcome to soulcast, blog, rant rave away.
  • Fallyn said on Sep 05, 2008....
    asian or otherwise being a mom can be hard. welcome to rant heaven.

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I am just beginning this blog idea.. "New to the neighborhood"....
to get the thoughts in your head down on paper?,or to get the opinion of the masses of people who will read it,and maybe comment,good or bad?...
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I know ...it's been like almost forever! but here I am. I am at my daughter Shells for "Thanksgiving" so my pc is working for now. It has been a most amazing time for me. I have friends I didn't even know........
Yes, I am quoting Tigger for my title.

The look on people's faces when they saw me go out there with that big ol bull, and he had to have weighed AT LEAST 2500 lbs, and take to brushing him and feeding him apple treats....

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