i was pondering my existence yesterday and the thought came to mind that i can't remember how i felt in my last relationship. i spent 2 1/2 yrs with someone, and now...a year after the break up; i can't remember how i felt then. is that odd? is that normal? does it mean i am healing? or does it mean that i am so full of myself that i can't really feel for another? i fear it is the latter. i have a hard time caring...i mean REALLY caring. can anyone tell me if they have experienced this or if they have any thoughts?