LOVE!

So many people are so fixed on love. Yes, it is important to experience love, and pain does more or less come right after.. but we have a tendency to love so much that we just loose a piece of ourselves. I am not hurting nor lacking in love. But I have come to realize, that love in a relationship is not always meant for comfort and happiness. It is also meant, to bring awareness to one or both parties. Sometimes, you will have a couple so inlove and then it just ends.. one is left thinking and woundering what happened? Not all the time, this thing we call love is exactly what it is.. I have experienced being inlove and it changing me, along with helping me to grow. You grow and your mind opens so much that you realize that the person your  with, isn't the person you really want to be with, or you really do not want to be stuck in a relationship.Love frees you sometimes, whether you want it to or not. One word of advice, do be careful not to love a person for what you wish them to be. We sometimes see people, not for who they are or for what they are showing us, but for what we would like them to be. Most relationships end, because we build up the other party so much to what we would and want them to be, and not seeing what they are and what their showing us. "What you see is what you get".