I have only met one girl online and let me tell you, it was not good. It's so hard because 90% of these find your "soul mate" internet personals are just spam from the big dating sites. if they are real, so many people just write what they think others want to hear rather than writing about who they really are...... what's the point? Lies won't get you anywhere, especially with love. My buddy found his wife online, so I thought I'd scope it out.....  I am looking for one woman I can spend the rest of my my life with. I can tell you honestly that I know how to respect, love and treat a woman. (in the true sense of the words.....) I'm just trying to find that one woman to love...... Half of my friends, like way waayy too many guys look at women  as meat, like they're not even people........ It seriously makes me want to puke just listening to them talk about the girls they boned the night before. I can't be the odd man out and get ridiculed so I just keep my mouth shut. I'm 25 and I'm ready to grow up! I love sex! But I think "making love" should actually involve the love part! Am I wierd? I don't believe in waiting till marriage or all that religious, christian BS. I just believe you should at least really care for someone before you bone down........ The sex is soooo much better if you're in love. Call me crazy but................. I dunno,  I just really need to find a real partner to love and cherish; someone to give me an escape from all of my PIG friends...... Ladies you're not innocent either, y'all just keep the cycle rolling! You think if you give it up, a man will love you. They won't! Haven't you learned by now that if some dude is trying to get all up in your pants the first night, he's not  "in love" or has no plans of loving you. He's gonna fuck you and then muck you (break your heart) in a hurry. All I hear is how your hearts have been broken and always complaining about how all men are pigs and blah blah.. Y'all should know better by now! DAAAHH!!!! I'm so frustrated!! Nice guys really do finish last I'm a good lookin guy, but it's crazyhard to find a quality girl. No more "bar bitches" pardon my french, but a the bar is not a place to find love, if not the bar, where?.............................. I guess I'll just keep on tryin..........