I can’t imagine that this damn woman can do this. This is the reason why…..   This woman whose name is Clair was a migrant worker in UK and was so depressed in finding a mate here in UK. She was desperately in need of somebody who can satisfy her as a woman. Until finally, she met this guy (Arnulfo) which was happened to be my co-board mate here in London.  I’ve known this guy for so many years because we were workmates in one of the cleaning agency in UK and Arnulfo was her comrade. Both of them  were the sponsors of the son of Clair’s sister, that’s why they knew each other. But they don’t expect, even me that this will lead to a deeper relationship. Clair who has a son (now married already and was in the Philippines) insists that she was separated from her husband before going to UK and lived with Arnulfo, while the guy (Arnulfo) was married, with two daughters who are still in college and a working wife.  Unfortunately the wife didn’t know that her husband is cheating her.

     The two are now living together. In fact they were living together for more than a year, and even up to now their relationship had been very fruitful. I don’t know, but the woman is not satisfied for just being a mistress; to be the other woman.  She complained to him the situation, that her parents want to divide the properties and that their parents want to include Arnulfo as one of the heirs of the properties to include in the testament.   Of course, it cannot be because, he is married and it would be impossible because it’s unlawful.  She wants Arnulfo to file legal separation against his rightful wife. She wants also Arnulfo to tell the whole thing to her wife and children. He did not want to do it, because he is afraid that if he will tell it to his children this might affect their studies. He told her, it’s not yet the appropriate time to tell them, and for him the best time to tell them is when his two daughters graduated from college. For the mean time, he is silent about their relationship.  But Clair wants to make her relationship with Arnulfo to be legal by hook or by crook.  She wants to have a child before she reach her menopausal stage.  Now the wife of Arnulfo smells something fishy because her husband is always angry with her every time she called him up.  The poor wife was so desperate that she thinks that her husband is playing and having another woman here in UK. She even called up her sister-in-law who was also in UK to get details of the situation. She said that her husband had changed now, and she doesn’t know the reason why. She told  her also that her husband often told her that he is going to separate with her, and she don’t even know the reason why.  I’ve received a call from the sister-in-law that the wife had been complaining to her and wants to know if his husband had a mistress here in UK.  The sister-in-law do not know how she going to answer the wife. She knows that her brother has a mistress here but she doesn’t want to hurt her feelings. She told me that the wife had been very good to them and that they regard her as an immediate family member.  She also doesn’t want to tell the truth because she’s afraid that it will affect both the wife and the daughters.   She is suspecting that her husband is fooling her.  Until now, the wife doesn’t know what’s going on with her husband. She cannot do anything. She just keeps on silent. The mistress even told me that if they will take vacation in the Philippines. They will be going to Batangas , the place of Clair, and that Arnulfo will not going to Alabang where his family resides.

     Ahh….poor woman (the wife). Her husband was a victim of lust. He was so weak. He even didn’t think of what will be the outcome of his being unfaithful. He even didn’t think of what will happen if his daughters know the situation. But there was a saying that you cannot hide anything. It will come out the soonest if not today. And I’m looking forward to that. For the meantime the mistress is trying everything to win the heart of Arnulfo. She even tries to learn cooking, which she does not want to do before. She even takes good care of him, massage him etc. She wants him to remember the great things that she is doing with him, so that if they will split up he will not forget her. Is that what the mistress is trying to prove? That they can do better than the lawful wife. That they were far more superior from the original wife.  I think so. Do you agree with me?