Having been in a few different relationships throughout my life, it has taught me one thing. I really still don't know what women want.
Neither I think does ANY man, otherwise they would all be happy wouldn't they?
Well ladies, I think it's been proven that man is utterly useless at guessing what it is you want from us, life and so on.
So I'm giving this opportunity to you all to let us guys know what on earth goes on inside those complex brains of yours.
We would really appreciate the help, and I'm sure you'll all appreciate getting these things you want...if indeed you yourself know what you want.
mrhowto posted on Aug 16, 2006
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bandanna said on Aug 16, 2006....
I can think of a few... - Chocolates, flowers, hugs & kisses. When least expected. - To be loved and less judged. - Papmering and attention - no more football - someone who can make us feel safe - not to be undermined I could go on all day... -
londontemptress said on Aug 16, 2006....
*giggles* Don't ask for much do we? :)) All I want for xmas is a big "O". ;) -
truthblogs said on Aug 16, 2006....
I find a good "gagging session" once in a while goes down well(pardon the pun)...JOKE. Damn, you women are hard to please. No wonder you're all unhappy...you want too much! -
bandanna said on Aug 16, 2006....
LOL *gags* :P -
mrhowto said on Aug 16, 2006....
Lol, come on now, let's try and keep it reletively serious. Also, if we were t do all this, what would we get in return...I mean would it really be worth all the extra effort? -
chingform said on Aug 16, 2006....
sometime, just show some appreciation :) -
Jenna said on Aug 16, 2006....
We want to feel respected. We want to be held on a pedastool. We want you to treat us as if the sun and the stars exist for us. We want to be worshipped. I know that sounds like a lot.... but if you do those small things... you will get the best blowjobs of your life. -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 16, 2006....
that is tooooooooooooooo much mrhowto...and that is maybe a bad news for you..hahah I would like to give you my list here, but i don't think there is enough space :D but if you aim to understand your wife, the best thing is to ask her best friend(s) about what she really wants from you (the complains, the deepest thoughts' of a woman usually kept by the best friend). -
Dazlak said on Aug 16, 2006....
For crying out loud. The woman wants the same as we do. We want to be apriciated, loved, carased, fucked. Everybody does. We want to be pampered with from time to time, we want to have somebody we can lean on to. We want to have a mate that understands us. This crap about he wants, she wants... is making me gag. The bloody thing is that men are not used to be pampered with and dont expect it. But we want it already. -
mrhowto said on Aug 16, 2006....
All I see is the same old pattern here....want want want! People simply want too damn much. If everyone gave up their wants, they might be able to enjoy living once in a while. -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 16, 2006....
or maybe dull? ;p -
Jenna said on Aug 16, 2006....
Not sure I understand....but didn't you ASK us what we want? And now you are complaining about the fact we are answering you. What's up with that? -
Elevator said on Aug 16, 2006....
Again, from another post i mention how men do a lot of the chasing. We are both people in each sex after all. Throw as a bone once in a while will ya! -
sigroid75 said on Aug 16, 2006....
hihihi i posted what i got from a friend about women saying something and wanting something else. maybe you guys can get some ideas there, too. :-) i would want tenderness, respect, fear of God, fidelity... hihihihihi :-) -
StupidGenius said on Aug 16, 2006....
[b]Confess to all your sins soulcasters[/b] you will feel better, [b]promise[/b] ||{1}|| -
backtotheangels@aol.com said on Aug 16, 2006....
Have you tried talking to the women in your life about what they want? What was their answer? Did you listen carefully? -
whisper said on Aug 16, 2006....
Adam was thrown out of Eden.........Alexander died guessing.......Einstein experimented all his life .... Napoleon went to wage wars... trying to figure out.......and Bush is out there .....(dont forget Clinton)...... nobody could........nobody will.........and it is useless to ask them....they will never tell....... well women????? ahhhhhhhhhhh........ -
blueyedtiger said on Aug 16, 2006....
Women tend to change their minds too often to set a definite list. Bandanna - What about the women who actually like football? You cant just do away with something that big just because a few people dont like it. Remember, the world is almost equally balanced between men and women. The people that dont like football are on the losing side of that balance. Why not LESS football instead of ZERO football? Its the same with chocolate, women want their guys to buy them chocolate all the time (I admit it is amazing!!) and then some girls beat themselves up because they gorged and think they are getting fat. There is no end to it. Jus tlisten when your gal says listen, hold her when she cries, tell her you love her in every way possible. (if you really do anyway) -
essenceofe said on Aug 16, 2006....
Well it depends on the woman. but I want someone to make me laugh, be honest with me, be a hard worker, give me space but want to spend time with me when the time is right, listen to me, talk to me, share our pasts and future goals, care about me...blah blah blah. But I think what women want is really simple. Just a companion and someone to trust completely and feel comfortable with. -
dauntlessreign said on Aug 16, 2006....
LOYAL, HONEST,SENSITIVE,RESPONSIBLE,CARING,GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST,INTELLECTUAL,WITH SENSE OF HUMOR...there's a lot dude. but of course there's no one-stop-shop man so there will always be something missing. -
cess said on Aug 16, 2006....
SCENARIO: You are in the mere stage of getting to know each other, or let's just say, just being new friends but with mutual attraction. Man: How will you go home? Woman: No, no, it's okay. I can take care of myself. Thanks anyway. --- Usually, what the woman really wants is for the guy to insist to bring her on her home and safely attend to her until she gets inside the house. -
Jenna said on Aug 16, 2006....
Yep... you got it cess! -
Jenna said on Aug 16, 2006....
Yep... you got it cess! -
pinkblush said on Aug 16, 2006....
[b]Appreciation[/b] we could spend hours preparing for dates, to fix our hair, to look right in front of you... and all you could do is stare at some else or never compliment how we look... [b]caring[/b] at the end of the day, do you even ask us how the day turned for us.. (we always do that, do you? [b]importance[/b] we could let you feel how important you are to us, how about you? don't act like we don't exist.. that is not funny! [b]love[/b] add all three.. plus attention equals love. -
Zayda said on Aug 16, 2006....
What they want is for men to pay attention, or to feel like men are really paying attention. They want you to communicate with them and to do it without having one eye constantly on the t.v. or your latest video game. -
twistedmelancholy said on Aug 16, 2006....
Chocolate...lots and lots of chocolate, and ice cream. -
gingersoul said on Aug 16, 2006....
We don't really want.....we just would like to feel emotions, butterflies in the stomach, the urge to touch you, the need to listen to you, the impatience to see you and talk to you. You can give us everything but this is the plain, wonderful truth: you don't need to give us anything material. This is why most men don't understand us women. They made up this idea of us as unsatiable and never satisfied creatures, oh so hard to please just because most men are unable to satisfy the only real hunger we have: passion, trust and time. Only requisite we ask: you got to have that touch in the middle of the night. The rest is boredom. That's why we need chocolate. And pretty dress and outrageous shoes. And at least one great girlfriend. -
gailalush said on Aug 17, 2006....
mrhowto, you wouldnt really understand us - women if you wont accept that men are from mars and women are from venus. :P -
myfrens.com said on Aug 17, 2006....
In our country it seems what women want is: the 5Cs: 1. Cash 2. Car 3. Cock 4. Credit Card 5. Condominium (Luxury Apartment) or the 5Cs 1. Compassion 2. Compatability 3. Career 4. Caring 5. Cute :) -
myfrens.com said on Aug 17, 2006....
Practical ideas from MyFrens.com Well the number 1 thing I think is that women or if they are young can call them girls want to be entertained most of the time. If a man comes across as boring then they will go for more fun guys. That explains why men with money get a lot of the girls cause they can give the girls fun. Like take them to a fun new place. Experiencing new things which all help to buid up that emotional connection with the girl. -
myfrens.com said on Aug 17, 2006....
Practical ideas from [URL]http://www.MyFrens.com[/URL] Well the number 1 thing I think is that women or if they are young can call them girls want to be entertained most of the time. If a man comes across as boring then they will go for more fun guys. That explains why men with money get a lot of the girls cause they can give the girls fun. Like take them to a fun new place. Experiencing new things which all help to buid up that emotional connection with the girl. -
cess said on Aug 17, 2006....
Yeah Jenna. We got it! :) You know what guys, it can be really tough to understand women, but it can also be very easy to please us.... Treat us like your princess, and I should say no more. -
cess said on Aug 17, 2006....
Yeah Jenna. We got it! :) You know what guys, it can be really tough to understand women, but it can also be very easy to please us.... Treat us like your princess, and I should say no more. -
kdarticles said on Aug 17, 2006....
All I want is to treat my husband like a king. Give him what ever he wants. I want to make him happy. I want him to feel loved, relaxed, appretiated, etc. I want him to know that I'll be here when he needs someone to talk to, complain to, lean on, hold, cry with, make love to...and so on. I want him to know with out a doubt that I adore him more than anyone in the world. I want to see him smile and hear him laugh. I want him to be satisfied to the point that he couldn't want any more. I want whatever it is that will make my husband happy..... ...all I really want, as a women, is for my husband to want those same things for me. I want him to love me the way I love him. (kind of sappy I know, but it's true) -
00purple666 said on Aug 17, 2006....
[color=purple] All I do is give and usually get crapped on, not in a literal sense though I am not into that! All I look for is someone I am attracted to,get on with,Have at least 3 common interests and I get sparks from! It's not as easy as it looks!..Kdarticles I agree with all of what you say,( for me minus the husband) but you've got it spot on [/color] -
sadsack said on Aug 18, 2006....
Didn't see this post earlier, so mine will be the 37th comment! Anyway, women come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, but I think that at the end of the day, all we want is to feel loved, wanted and appreciated. And if the guy we're in a relatinship with knows this I think he'll be able to get his women to do almost anything for him. -
Jenna said on Aug 18, 2006....
332001....get over yourself....no one is interested!!!! -
anonymous said on Aug 20, 2006....
what women
want?????????????
love her with all your heart................
what women
want????????????
give her what she want..........
if she want,
love
full attention
care
concern......
give it.....
and give her needs,,,,,,,,,but if she asking
for too much that you cant.....try to explain it.
if she will not listen..... think thousand time before making any decision........
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jyamanta said on Aug 20, 2006....
They want to be seen better, more intelligent and more wealthy than you are. Tell them now that they are and the problem is solved. Never tell them that they have to learn some thing, they have to change somewhere in their way of living and thinking.
Right?
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just-a-girl said on Aug 20, 2006....
the truth is, i think that most of us do not know what we want. sometimes we want a guy who'll ignore us so we can be mad, sometimes we want the guy who talks to us about everything all the time. then THAT gets annoying and we want the jerk back, and then we'll cry and want the sensitive guy again...it's a vicious cycle and we have no idea how to stop it. seriously, i wish we could, and i'm very sorry for all the trouble we cause all you poor men. however, you do give us your own share of confusion.
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Jadea said on Aug 21, 2006....
Not much - just a little respect. And the two biggest things are LOVE and TRUST.
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mintan said on Aug 21, 2006....
Read the book "Five languages of love" and find out your partner's love language as well as your own.. that might be a good way to start =)
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LadyGamer said on Aug 23, 2006....
Without having read ANY of the comments....here is my reply.
I can speak for just this ONE woman.
*I* want.....
To be listened to like what I have to say is important and matters.
To be valued for who I am...not what I COULD be.
Incredible sex at the drop of a hat.
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Elevator said on Aug 24, 2006....
Lady gamer, no that sounds about right. That is something that can be handled.
And not even handled. Something that could work fluidly.
I guess it can only be as difficult as you want it to be.
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00purple666 said on Jan 04, 2007....
To lady-gamer what if you had the man of your dreams but the sex wasn't that incredible?? -
00purple666 said on Jan 04, 2007....
Or what if the sex was incredible but the man isn't the man of your dreams?
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