He beat me up and took my money after catching him in bed with what was my best friend. He's in jail now, but says he will get me good when he gets out and no one is watching.I want to move far away, but I'm scared he will find me. I'm staying with my sister now. Oh shit, i just want to be free to love again, but i don't know if i ever will love ever again. How can i trust someone now? I'm just going to blog out my feelings.
backspace posted on Aug 08, 2008
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curmudgeon said on Aug 08, 2008....
I don't know you at all, but I guess the thing to look out for in the next relationship is what about this person attracts you? What kind of personalities are you drawing towards you? The goal here is obviously not to repeat this dynamic.Everyone deserves to be in a safe, loving relationship. I hope someday you find what you need.Talk to the local police about how you can protect yourself from this guy. If he's a convict, I imagine that him coming anywhere near you could be a violation of his parole. I guess some basics might be to make sure someone you trust knows where you are and where you're headed at all times. Make sure your neighbors and maybe people in the neighborhood and at your workplace know who you are and who this guy is and if they see him anywhere near your house, they can call it in to the police. Make sure any path you take is well traveled, park in well-lighted and high traffic areas, and learn how to escape and evade if you so much as sense him. Get a police lock for your door. If you're really fearful that this guy will hurt you, study krav maga. Learn how to use a small knife or a kerambit. This guy has no right to terrorize you like this. If he gets within arms length, let it be his ass.Playing offense against a guy like this would be so much more efficient, but unfortunately society now frowns on stuff like that.Keep us posted! -
silverwhisper said on Aug 09, 2008....
backspace, while he's in jail, get a restraining order and call the cops the moment he shows up. do not hesitate, do not delay.
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backspace said on Aug 09, 2008....
alright -
Eilan said on Aug 09, 2008....
He's in jail now, but says he will get me good when he gets out and no one is watching.
This is aggravated menacing.
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RollingC said on Aug 09, 2008....
Hope he said that in front of witnesses. Don't be alone with him if you ever need to talk to him and follow Silver's advice.
Just for making that threat he can get arrested...I hope you know that.
Good luck and keep in touch...
Rc
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backspace said on Aug 10, 2008....
Being all alone opens my eyes -
botoni said on Aug 10, 2008....
Your trust has been destroyed. With time and patience and with someone who truly loves you the ability to trust and love can return.
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