i saw a segment on the local news observing that many couples are getting married today, because the date, 08/08/08, is an auspicious one. leaving aside the fact that 01/01/01, 02/02/02, 03/03/03, etc also were, as will 09/09/09 next year: i found this peculiar, to be honest.
this notion of getting married on an auspicious day is to me goofy.
i dunno, maybe it's just me, but i keep thinking to myself that the fact it's one's wedding day should itself make a day--any day--plenty auspicious in its own right, you know? isn't any given day's meaning--whatever it may be--strictly a function of the meaning which we ourselves choose to invest in it? not what some random other people, whose interests & priorities might have been completely different from our own, might say?
in saying this, i know i'm echoing something a friend told me once about not observing valentine's day. it's a point on which we disagree.
but let's say that you do accept the idea that an auspicious day can have meaning independent of whatever meaning you might give it, or that a particular date is very personally significant to you. that being the case: what date would, to you, be an auspicious day on which to get married?
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