Since my previous post (circa June) I have moved in with a friend, therefore breaking one of th cradinal rules of a good friendship; never take the chance of ruining of the friendship by making any major changes to the friendship dynamic, ie. moving in together.  I made it even worse by assuming that if we would move in together she would follow my example and learn to clean, realize the importance of physical activity and understand that your world should never revolve around anything other tha family or a significant other and not lets say a cat. Also being roomates does not mean we spend every free moment together.

yeah it was mistake

 

Ps Also just because I am a gay man it does not mean that I shop all the time and thai I necessarily want to help you pick out clothes all the time,,sterotype.