Last week I had the joy of working late shift, now for those who aren't aware I am Operations person #1 at a classy limousine and coach company.  The drive that we do is approximate 70 km along the most scenic and dangerous road in Australia.  Port Douglas to Cairns coastal highway, one lane each way.
 
Our drivers are all trained in first aid, they all have due care and dilligence on this road, zero accidents for our company.  Now some local drivers here think they #1 own the road #2 know how to drive it because they are local.  Unfortunately they share this road with people not unlike yourselfs should you come for a holiday here.  People are use to driving on the wrong side (te he he) of the road, people who are enjoying at leisure the beautiful road trip. 
 
When you mix these two groups of drivers together with lorry trucks you create a cocktail that makes me sick on a weekly basis... last week once every two days.  What am I talking about??? Car accidents, and not just from drink drivers but speed, why I particularly don't like it is that our drivers end up directing traffic, are usually the first at the scene even before cops, ambulance or fire brigade, who do they call on the radio?? Me, with every detail about the accidents that I MUST relay to emergency services.
 
The two that happened on my watch were deadly, a local driver going to fast a slow tourist traveling on a dangerous road veering to the wrong side.... the second? a local driver chancing to overtake on this road that kills on average one person a month.  Filthy is all I can think of.
 
I do not wish to go home having been on our phone and radio all afternoon having to not only direct emergency services but field calls from locals, concerned obviously, tourist and their resorts.. relaying again and again the foolishness of drink driving and speed that caused both accidents.  We only have one life, anyone who wishes to jeopordise someone elses should be in MHO punished beyond the standard slap on the wrist.
 
AA meetings, re hab, driver ed, loss of liscence for over five years, MASSIVE fines... you know too many people be it here in Australia or any other country around the world lose their lives because someone is more interested in the destination rather than the journey of life.
 
I feel very bad for Daily's friend and their family, for CJ and his family, his friends, his life.  Just because someone is gone, dead, does not mean that we live each day without pain, the pain they would have suffered is always transferred to those of us left.
 
If people stopped being so damned selfish about their destination be that joy through alcohol or a holiday then the pain so many live with for LIFE would not be so prominent in our societies.
 
My little winge folks, those two accidents effected me, I had to hear about severed body parts, blood, wreckage, death and relay this on the phone to someone else then deal with my driver when she got back, talk to her, make sure she was okay, offer her some counceling to ensure that she was not emotionaly jared and scarred by it, its not easy its awfully upseting and its disgusting that people don't think about it more often.
 
Life is about the journey, not the destination.


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  • MissMimi said on Aug 02, 2008....

    That must be the most difficult part of your job.  I don't know how police and firefighters work at those grisly accidnt scenes without losing it emotionally. 

    I agree with you completely that penalties for drunk driving need to be much harsher.  Here it's entirely possible to be arrested multiple times and still be out on the road. 

  • Lucytorial said on Aug 03, 2008....

    MissM... its sad, makes me angry and hurt and scared... Professionals in emergency situations are trained, I am not, nor is the lady, man, young boy or women who happens upon these accidents before professionals get there... what are we to do? how ar we to respond and react? WHY should we have to be the ones... not that I wouldn't ever stop or help I'm not saying that but it was truly awful, another accident happened today... people just don't get it.

     

  • pusscat said on Aug 03, 2008....
    It is something that has angerd me for years ladies. 
     
    If I were to sit one of you down and pull out a gun with 6 chambers, but only one had the bullet in it, then told you I am goind to spin the barrel and fire the gun aimed at your head, and I will do this 3 times you actually stand less of a chance of having your head blown off than of having an accident if you get in your car after consuming way over the legal limit of alcohol for driving.
     
    For the gun offence?  I would most definitely be doing a jail term.  For the drink driving offence?  A few lessons with driving education and a fine.  hell . . . you'd be back on the road within 12 months in this country. 
     
    They say our prisons are too full - I say so are our cemetaries!
     
    It is a remarkable job you do there Lucy.  As hard as that must be for you, i am glad it is you who deals with the friends and your drivers and not someone like that callous idiot who told CJ his wife was taken to the morgue 10 minutes prior.
  • botoni said on Aug 03, 2008....

    We see these same situations everywhere.  It's no different here.  Every time I'm in my vehicle driving whether it's in the city or on the open road I see the idiots who have no respect for the rules of the road let alone an ounce of common courtesy.  Carnage on our streets is an everyday event.

    Lucy, you have all my sympathy in what you must deal with everyday in your job.  Dealing with situations of that magnitude takes a very special person.  There really should be some training available in how to cope with those events since they occur so often.  Learning on the job is no way to handle that sort of thing.

  • beyondtheveil said on Aug 03, 2008....
    lucy- If this is the most scenic road in Australia, allow me to ask the stupid question of why don't they add another lane? Ok, it would probably be expensive but so are people's lives in several ways. They could make it a toll road and recoup the money spent if that's what's bothering them.

    I can understand how those calls must affect you. They can't directly call emergency services? I don't understand that either.
  • wishyouwerehere said on Aug 03, 2008....
    Lucy, that sounds horrible!  For a while, when I first moved here, I was afraid to drive.  There's no real public transportation system here, especially out east, and in the city, while I would drive occaisonally, there is too much traffic for anyone to do anything stupid at high speed.  Sure, there were accidents, but mostly minor.  Out here, it seems that every accident results in a serious injury or fatality, and the saddest part is that many of them involve young drivers or alcohol. 
     
    I agree that there is no excuse for drinking and driving.  It is bad enough to jeopardize one's own life, let alone the high risk of injuring or killing someone else.  IMHO, it is no different than premeditated homicide.  Anyone with two living brain cells should be aware of the potential disaster of mixing alcohol with automobiles.
     
    Sending you great big hugs for having to listen to that while it is happening.  Since I treat a lot of injuries related to car accidents, I usually hear many gory details also, but it is after the fact.
     
    More hugs - Wishy
  • gingersoul said on Aug 03, 2008....
    Lucy......well...i feel for you.

    I have worked for several years in an Italian newspaper during what we call "black shift" .......meaning that i was in direct contact with police dispatchers and officers, firefighters and ambulance crew on a daily basis to cover any possible accident happening in our city and surrounding areas.

    Some accidents had the freaking habits to happen at night or during the week end  and who was the one who had to be there to collect the goriest details? Your truly yours.

    The police and the paramedic are used to his kind of massacre on the roads and they are really crude and raw in their description, when they are commenting off the record. They get desensitized with the time, i know.

    On top of this, if the accident was really impressive or there was one dead involved i also had to go on the scene with our photographer to interview possible witnesses and so on.
    I remember particularly one night when we had to reach the middle of this secluded field because a poor guy got truncated by the wheels of his own tractor earlier that afternoon and the family, after waiting for him, had called the police at dinner time.
    They found him hid under the tractor, broken in two at the legs..
    When we arrived Gianny, my friend photographer, warned me about not going too close...it was just horrible...
    But i had to write an article about...i had to look... 

    Btw.....i hate the people who drive drunk or under drugs. If you pick these ways for a quicker death, don't hurt anybody else in the process, a**holes!.

  • woman said on Aug 03, 2008....
    This is a lot for you to deal with Lucy. I have no tolerance for drunk driving. It is a sick and selfish act. I hope that the road conditions improve and the way accidents are reported too. Finding a proper way to deal with these drivers would be splendid too, wouldn't it?
  • RollingC said on Aug 03, 2008....
    There's really no excuse for drunken driving.  I lived in South America in a country where it was very macho to be a heavy drinker and carry yourself well. I admit to driving under the influence for years but have since then kicked the habit and I no longer indulge like before.
    I've never had an accident but I attribute that now to the grace of God rather than any skill that I may have.  I now realize that I used to risk not only me but others and I've done a turn around on that point of view.
    Education, plus giving it a big hype/propaganda campaign may be the solution.
    Rc.
  • Lucytorial said on Aug 04, 2008....
    I'll comment individually later, seriously I'm totally stuffed from work... guess what?? some stpid driver overtook me on a crest on a double lane (no overtaking) with a truck going the other direction... yeee gads! anyway... sorry I will comment later, had a hgue day and I appreciate all comments... Ginger... hmmm very long response to you coming dear.

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