• silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....

  when you get people in a space to talk about what they want anonymously, the popularity of sex as a conversational topic should be enormously unsurprising, i would think. :> i personally like talking about sex. i'm generally not one to broach the topic, though. and i don't like discussing specifics: certainly not about what's going on in my marriage in that respect. but in the abstract or in general terms, to me it's a fun topic. personally, i think that this reluctance to discuss sex openly and honestly is a particularly unfortunate part of the puritans' legacy. ed

• FriendsForever said on Aug 15, 2006....

  Not only "puritan's legacy" SW, I'd rather say respect for your partner. am i corny? that's how i felt about it. actually i envy the bloggers who can detail the sex act, fiction or not. wish i can bring myself to do the same for traffic sake :)) joke ... joke...joke

• silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....

  FF: if i say to you that i [i]love[/i] performing cunnilingus, i fail to see how i've disrespected my wife. i dunno, to me that's not really a problematic statement. am i missing something? ed

• FriendsForever said on Aug 15, 2006....

  i think not, wrong term silly me ;D

• silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....

  i'm awfully curious what the correct term is. :> ed

• realmenluvporn said on Aug 15, 2006....

  When I signed up for my account here on SoulCast, I imagined I'd write quite a bit about erotica and sex and the like. Don't tell anyone, but I work in the sex industry. When I got here I got distracted by a couple of posts that took me in another direction I feel passionate about. I agree with you that sexuality is an important part of every human being's life. And for a lot of people it's difficult to discuss. But you see, the great part about an anonymous community like SoulCast is you can be whoever you want, talk about anything you want, even your deepest darkest secrets, and nobody can do anything about it. Sometimes the best way to keep your demons from consuming you is to channel them in nude erections... ;-) Get it? New Directions? Ok, so I won't quit my day job. SW is a fan of cunnlingus. I'm a fan of fellatio! Not just receiving, mind you... I'm a married bisexual man and I've been around the block (and the world) a time or two. I could tell you stories that would curl your hair! ;-D So dig in, FF! Maybe you'll find a comfortable, friendly place to express those secret yearnings in a completely safe way here. You might just find it more liberating than you can imagine right now! :-D If you were to feel completely free to be yourself and write about anything erotic, what would you write about first? Q

• secretlife said on Aug 15, 2006....

  Sex is something I rarely discuss with people face to face. But I really love talking about it openly online. I love exploring my own sexuality and learning about others as well. I try to keep it out of the office these days; although i have a few friends who i trust and on occasion we'll talk about something sexual. LOL@you Q....nude erections......so damn clever!

• Jenna said on Aug 16, 2006....

  If a person is not getting/recieving...they do not want to hear about other people being fullfilled. That has been my experience around the water cooler. I love talking about sex...I think it is natural and fun. Sharing experiences can give you new ideas as well. ps.rmlp...what is your job? Sounds interesting!

• FriendsForever said on Aug 17, 2006....

  sorry for not replying to your comments, i lost connection for several days, goodness, at home and here in the office has no difference, poor dsl connection. going back to sex, this is really the most interesting topic on earth i guess because sex fulfill human nature. real is right anonimity gives us more freedom to discuss anything under the sun. so how do you make your sex life exciting?

• FriendsForever said on Aug 17, 2006....

  jenna are you asking about my work, totally not related to sex, and it's boring. i am an accountant.

• silverwhisper said on Aug 18, 2006....

  welcome back, FF! :> ed

• FriendsForever said on Aug 18, 2006....

  thanks silver, it's good to be around again and i've got to see your blogs, my favorite. ;D

• realmenluvporn said on Aug 18, 2006....

  Jenna: My job is producing entertainment for adults. I produce amateur adult video and web content. I am a good-old-fashion-dyed-in-the-wool pornographer.
  
  Hence the nic. :-)
  
  What about you? What do you do?
  
  RMLP
  

• secretlife said on Aug 18, 2006....

  oh wow rmlp i wouldn't have guessed this.
  

• realmenluvporn said on Aug 18, 2006....

  Are you teasing me, Secret?
  
  :-D
  
  RMLP
  

• FriendsForever said on Aug 18, 2006....

  one question real, how does it feel when your filming or taping a porno? do you get horny? ;D
  

• secretlife said on Aug 18, 2006....

  i was being sincere rmlp - i thought maybe doctor, lawyer, indian chief-
  

• realmenluvporn said on Aug 18, 2006....

  FF: Actually, you'd be surprised. You're so focused on the little things like making sure everything is in frame and focused, that you have enough tape left, getting the right angles, fooling with lights, dealing with performers' erection issues, setting and capturing a mood, you don't really have time to get turned on. It's when you go back and begin to edit your footage that the critical eye kicks into action. If I get turned on by a scene or sequence when I'm editing, then I sort of take that as feedback that I did a good job. :-) Now, I have done a few shoots where I was both in the scene and filming the scene, and of course that's a different issue. I don't perform in front of the camera much nowadays, though.
  
  Secret: My first career was in mental health, but I left after I realized that much of what I was trained to do really did more harm than good in the long run. I much prefer my present occupation to my first one. :-)
  
  RMLP
  

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