Ok - so I said that I was going to posting something a little different.Well,I know that there are a number of us in this community that have been through a lot of dark days in our lives.so,I was wondering - what was it about that particular experience that changed you.Whether it made you a little bit more weary of the people around you,or whether it made you wonder whether you can actually trust the people that you are with.Albeit a partner,a colleague - or your own children
I firmly believe that any relationship is built on trust and honesty.
If you are involved with someone,whether it has been a for a short time,or a long time - what criteria or qualities is that relationship based on?
Do you trust the other person - in spite of a previous experience you may have had,where you trusted too much and were let down as a result.If something untoward had to happen between your other half and say,a third party - would you be able to trust your partner to be honest enough with you to come and tell you what had happened.Or do you think that they would possibly carry on with the illicit goings on,hoping you dont catch up ?
For me personally,trust and honesty go hand in hand - in my mind - you cant have one with out the other - forget the good looks and the fantastic mind blowing sexual encounters- they fade eventually.Forget the large bank account,and the fancy house and fancy cars - those are all material things.They dont count for anything.
So does anyone else agree with the above.If so,why?
Or have you been through any experiences that have made you question who you are,what you stand for - and where your life is headed...................is that little house inside your head in order?
