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it really fucking annoys me to be spoken for by someone when what they're saying manifestly isn't what I think. The business of contracts seems to be very popular in the Sub-Culture, and according to Ms Philips they are essential to building up the trust between dom and sub, that surrender is impossible without it. According to J. Bean (whom, you'll be pleased to hear, I am swiftly finding myself loathing thanks to his insufferably selfrightous style), it's not "safe" to "play" without one.I appreciate that as a n00b, or "novice", as J. Bean puts it, I am not well-placed to pick up who is and isn't a rage psychopathic murderer on "the scene". I am, however, as a human being and the veteran of several nutjobs masquerading as boyfriends/girlfriends, quite capable of doing sensible things like making sure I don't dive into letting someone take a knife to me until I've had a chance to assess their personality and weed out the worrying ones.
Not entirely sure that such assessment requires someone giving me a piece of paper to sign so that I agree to do everything they say. I'm of the opinion that the agreement is implicit in the fact that I've decided to fuck them, and
