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with my job, i am always meeting new people from all over the world everyday. sometimes, i become friends with these people; other times, these people become the bestest of friends that i could ever ask for.
 
today, i had to say goodbye to a great friend of mine. it started out quite nicely. i arranged a surprise lunch for him at an italian restaurant then went to the esplanade to enjoy the live band. as we sat there along the water, i started to ask myself, how can i say goodbye to him?
 
in the past, i have not found it so difficult because i was drunk or with a group of people. but at the end of today, it was just me and him. i wanted to cry but instead, i let myself choke on my tears. i wanted to kiss him but at the same time, i didn't want him to get the wrong idea so i held back. i wanted to dance with him but i knew he would've been embarrassed to dance with all the people around. in the end, i just gave him a quick hug and said goodbye.
 
i wish i had done it differently but i don't know how.
 
now, i want to know, how would you say goodbye??


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  • queenparanoia said on Jul 27, 2008....
    that's a tough one.... but all i know is that a hug is nice... but a kiss..hmmm youre right it's tricky...
  • brit said on Jul 27, 2008....

    what kind of goodbye is it? a goodbye forever or a see you later goodbye?

    you know what, either way....a hug and "take care" or "see you soon" may work.

  • missmonash said on Jul 28, 2008....

    i went to see him for the last time today and it was the best way to say goodbye. we sat there for hours in his backyard and when it was time for me to go, he gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug for close to five minutes. we both cried together for a little bit and then said goodbye. i made a promise that i would go and visit him. and that was it. i don't think i would've had it any other way.

  • queenparanoia said on Jul 28, 2008....
    miss: i think that was a nice goodbye... ;-)
  • day2day said on Jul 29, 2008....

    It's always hard to say good bye.   What you did was a very nice way to do it.     I'm sure you and he will remember the tender moments for a lifetime.                Like you said, you will go visit him. Right?

     

    day2day

  • missmonash said on Jul 31, 2008....
    yeh will definitely go to visit him.

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