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Do you like real boobs are fake ones?

My boobs are real, big, and…er..well…headed south. Gravity has pulled them down and now I need lots of hardware to shape them and hold them high. I’m 41 and perky boobs are not something I can claim anymore.

I am still content with a nice bra to give them good shape. I’ve never really considered surgery to bring pack the sexiness of my youth.

What do you think about boob jobs a.k.a breast surgeries?


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  • dubiousjayhawk said on Aug 14, 2006....
    I think boob reductions are perfectly fine. My best friend has HH's and still growing - she's thin like me so she has a lot of back pain. She wants to get them reduced but has to wait for them to stop growing. So anyway, I think they are fine - because I know someone that needs/wants one! However, making small boobs bigger seems ridiculous to me. Because its obvious. And because you're trying to make yourself pretty because of men - usually. You tell yourself "oh its so I feel better" But why do you feel better? Because sleezy men that only care about boobs hit on you.
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 15, 2006....
    My cousin had to have a breast reduction because of back pain also. They had to reconstruct her nipples though. I never asked her, but I think that would mess with your sexual pleasure. Anyone know if it does?
  • ALIENated said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I think anything short of flat-chested, leave them alone. You might want to add something if you have nothing, but only then if it makes you feel better, not to please someone else. Frankly, there is a point at which they get too big. As they say, anything more than a mouthful is just a bonus. If Mr. Right does not love you for your mind and who you are, it is probably temporary anyway. Write on.
  • pinkblush said on Aug 15, 2006....
    real ones. because the fake ones look hard (stoney hard). my boobs are real but they are not big hehe, but i think they're alright for my body. Just enough, at times they seem small to me but push up bras do their thing for me. if there was a non-surgical way of making my boobs bigger, maybe I'll try one day.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....
    you know, i can usually tell fake breasts from real. i've never been involved w/ a woman who had anything other than the real thing, though. ed
  • Vavna said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Fake boobs look weird plus they're always associated with sluts. And yes, if they didn't do the surgery correctly you can loose your feeling. I'm very conscious of my real ones, 'cos they're big but I wear shirts to cover them up so not a lot of people notice. But if you really pay attention, you'd notice. Oh and by the way, for all ye men out there, studies find that staring at boobs makes your life longer.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
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  • realmenluvporn said on Aug 15, 2006....
    AS long as they're big and sexy, who cares if they're real? Q
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Fake ones don't feel right. Don't taste right either. And in my expereince, the wimmin who get the fakies are not too right where it counts either.
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I sometimes chuckle at the botched boobjobs where the nipples are set too high, or when you can clearly see the saline bags protruding from under their boobs. One thing I must say for unnecessary/plastic surgery is, that you may be able to fool people, but you can't fool genetics. You can pour all that money on yourself, but your kids will still have the big nose, or no boobs, or the hump on their back. Besides, if your inside's ugly, it doesn't matter how much plastic you stuff yourself with, you're still ugly.
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Oh and one more thing: Here's an article about an Israeli woman whose life was saved by her breast implants. ||{1}|| Enjoy, Grape.
  • athletico1976 said on Aug 15, 2006....
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  • secretlife said on Aug 15, 2006....
    If I had 10K, I'd have mine lifted. I'm fine with the size, but then I've always had more than my share. I know where they started out, and I just would like to get them back there for old times sake- Grape I agree with you that what matters is what's inside, and if you're ugly on the inside, you're still ugly no matter what the outside looks like. But I really think that there are those who just want to feel good about themselves. I'm not talking the A to DD or B to EEE...I'm talking the A cup who yearns to be a B or C.... Q- I'm with you once again.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....
    secretlife: on the plus side, i'm sure your breasts have a great shape. :> ed
  • realmenluvporn said on Aug 15, 2006....
    You know, I know a lot of women really connect their sense of self-identity to their breast size. I don't know if it's the best idea in the world, but people do it just the same. I guess guys might tend to do that with their penises, but so far we don't have the same options as women do! And I don't care how big he is, every guy wants a bigger one! By the same token I have known women who have absolutely changed their lives for the profoundly better by getting the augmentation. I think every woman should feel sexy, and not enough of them do (for whatever reason), and if getting a boob job connects to your feminine wiles and sense of attractiveness, then ROCK ON BABY! I have met and talked with quite a few women who say the best decision they ever made was to get their boobs done. GrapeKoolaid makes a good point too! Ultimately it comes down to how you feel about yourself that makes all the difference. Q
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    GKA, you tell it. . . Even if fakies saved a life or two or whatever, still, in general, fakies go with fake personalities. ___________________________________ Besides, if your inside's ugly, it doesn't matter how much plastic you stuff yourself with, you're still ugly. ----------------------------- I can't figure it out, but this is a concept people in LA just don't get. It's not like they get it, but they disagree. The very notion of "inside" stumps them. You feel tempted to think, "Gee, Hollowood really messed up these people." But that don't add up, cuz, you to see a movie made in Hollowood, you know, or you ought to know, it's just a movie. I think they were true believers in the Hollowood myth from the git go.
  • louthomas said on Aug 15, 2006....
    The real thing, without a doubt. I've been a girl-watcher since my little toy first raised its head and, when I check out a lady, it's: face, legs, fanny, general impression and, finally, her chest ... all in that order. Besides, many shrinks will tell you that guys who are preoccupied with a gal's breasts are still looking for a mommy. The more mature are leg and ass men .. like me, for instance. Not a titmouse. Again, it's how you regard yourself that counts. That shows more than a couple of droopers. That's why God invented bras.
  • louthomas said on Aug 15, 2006....
    The real thing, without a doubt. I've been a girl-watcher since my little toy first raised its head and, when I check out a lady, it's: face, legs, fanny, general impression and, finally, her chest ... all in that order. Besides, many shrinks will tell you that guys who are preoccupied with a gal's breasts are still looking for a mommy. The more mature are leg and ass men .. like me, for instance. Not a titmouse. Again, it's how you regard yourself that counts. That shows more than a couple of droopers. That's why God invented bras.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I like real boobs and I don't know why I like real boobs, this I can't deny Around real boobs, I'm never shy I sniff real boobs and it makes me high Really really big, or really really small I like real boobs, I like them all Perky, pouty, droopy or limp Real boobs make me wanna bawl -------------------------------------- I say, ol' chaps, this is a good thread, wot. Makes me inspired and just a little hot.
  • Root said on Aug 15, 2006....
    It's your patch of Earth, says the libertarian in me. We're not Frankensteins here people, says the conservative in me. That money could buy 3 women out of their debt-bondage peonage to a brothel in some international markets, says the feminist in me. Breast reduction may have some questionable health value, but you'd really have to do some convincing about augmentation. How did it save her life? They happened to find a tumor or something when they opened her body?
  • Reknaw133 said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I perfer real ones and I don't recommend people have them implanted unless they really can't feel confident at all.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Root, he gave he link and all. Anyways, the silly cone imps saved her life when she got hit by shrapnel from a hezzie missile. At last, a good reason for the boob augies. Breastplates. But by that logic, guys should get 'em as well.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 15, 2006....
    root: i would think that breast reduction can in some cases alleviate back and knee trouble. JMHO. ed
  • swaney3 said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I'm a big fan of breasts... But I'm not a fan of implants.. If they are sagging and you can afford it have them lifted.. a nip and tuck never hurt.. but I don't really think you should have implants unless your a stripper.. All breasts are not supposed to have the same shape, and thank god for that..
  • Root said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I said questionable, Ed, because the risks from the surgery still seem to outweigh the benefits. Both the women I've known who've had reductions gained weight again and their racks are as big as ever. (Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's how they both complain about it -- I did all this and it didn't "hold.") Medical necessity is a pretty high standard to meet. And it's hard to imagine how restoring, say a cleft palate, to socially conventional features compares to some women feeling like they should but their eyes under a knife because they want to look more like whitechicks. But I know there's a whole new sociological literature on this... dysmorphia... that explains the phenomenon more sympathetically than I am rendering here.
  • protagonist said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Um, I am suprised how many people go for fake because its so obvious to those of us that have real. Plus most guys Ive chatted with think they look good and feel awful.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    They look fake and feel fakier. I love the way they don't bounce. :) I have this paranoid fear that I'm with a woman with fakies going full gallop and at the apex of delight she falls forward and her fakies poke my eyes out and blinds me for life. And that does serious crippling of the libido. The image aut's a wilt in my stilt, if you get my drift.
  • pinkblush said on Aug 15, 2006....
    hey.. i remember posting my comment here.. where is it? damn, the thief is very active.
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Wow, It looks like real boobs are winning hands down! I have a nice real chest and some men have trouble looking me in the eyes during conversations because they are preoccupied with "the girls".
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 15, 2006....
    Whoo hoo, sounds mouth watering, Creative, are you gonna send out some 8 x 5 so we can see if we agree?
  • Bluesnake said on Aug 15, 2006....
    I'd say just leave it as it is. I hate fakies.
  • iciabruxelles said on Aug 16, 2006....
    Hence the question CW: do you feel offended that men are proeoccupied with "the girls" while talking to you, or you feel flattered instead?
  • Root said on Aug 16, 2006....
    Yes, CW, a blog on this might be nice. I can't understand why my husband likes me to wear certain low-plunging tops on certain nights out, when what it ultimately does is guarantee at least three, if not more, outrageous moments of discomfort on my part if he's not right by my side. The line between being flattered by appreciation and stung by lascivious looks is, for me, a thin one. And it shifts according to some combination of hormones, mood, and whether or not I have low blood sugar at the moment (cranky) or say a beer or two in me (ebullient).
  • StupidGenius said on Aug 16, 2006....
    [b]Confess to all your sins soulcasters[/b] you will feel better, [b]promise[/b] ||{1}||
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 16, 2006....
    Some women have told me they dislike a guy just looking at the girls, also known as the babylons, whilst others say they love it, if the right guy is looking. They even sorta push 'em up a little, give him a better view. Best of all are the one's that lean forward (by accident on purpose). Drives a guy loopy when hanging babylons hove into view. :)
  • purple said on Aug 16, 2006....
    My boobs are always perky when I am standing on my head. This morning's news reports that a woman in the middle east was saved by her silicon breast implants. Shrapnel from an explosion lodged in the implants, instead of in her heart. Sometimes life really is stranger than fiction.
  • purple said on Aug 16, 2006....
    I see 'grape' already mentioned this. That will teach me not to read every single post from top to bottom.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 16, 2006....
    I just recalled a song by the boobs boys: Do you like real boobs under the moonlight Squeeze those babies all though the night Oh, baby, do you like real boooooooooobs? Do ya, do ya like real boobs? Do ya, do ya like real boobs? Oh baby, do you like real booooooooobs? Do you like real boobs with roseate nipples? Globular and round, make you feel crippled? Oh baby, do you like real boooooobs? Idiocy rules!!!
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 16, 2006....
    When I was younger, I used to hate having men looking at "the girls". It made me uncomfortable. I even wore minimzer bras to try and hide them. I've had boobs since the 4th grade. Now, that I'm in my early 40's I've felt the need to embrace my sensuality. I've denied it for far too long. So, now I kind of get a kick out of bringing some attention to them. I like how I feel when I'm wearing a good underwire bra that lifts them and gives a good shape. I like that they get noticed. Maybe that's a little kink I have developed. I don't know. :-) CW
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 16, 2006....
    Atta girl, CW. I do so like to see a gal who is well presented. It gives life that extra umph of inspiration, that little extra lift and bounce, no pun intended, that takes the hard edges off reality, makes it feel more like a padded play space. :>)
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 16, 2006....
    Yeah, You know what they say, "If you've got them, flaunt them." :-) CW
  • hunter_boyce_chandler said on Aug 17, 2006....
    I'll admit I love them....I dont care if they are real or not.
  • yeahbutnobut said on Aug 17, 2006....
    Ode to the Babylons Plastic's fantastic but real's much better Look so good inside a tight sweater Makes a guy wanna reach up inside From roving hands the twin hills can't hide. I love boobies that's resilent and soft Makes me wanna to tear that sweater off I love real boobs crowned with a great big nipple Next to that the real ones the fake ones: "piffle" In the summer time when "the girls" come out Makes a fella wanna jump and shout I never ever feel as alive as when I hookup And I'm eating mah julie and I see her c-cup When you see them looking up from a muff A good man feels he just can't get enough And when I see how she's lovin' it to hell I feel inspired, it makes me wanna excel.
  • iciabruxelles said on Aug 17, 2006....
    good one ybnb! ;p
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 17, 2006....
    yeah, you are quite a poet! cw
  • OnTheMove4ever said on Oct 11, 2006....
    Personally I wouldn't have a boob job to increase the size but, if they were causing me health problems from being too large, then I'd have a reduction.

    Push Up bras are our friend!
  • beautyK said on Oct 18, 2006....
    When did breasts become more important than a brain? If you could choose between having perfect, huge breasts or a brain which would you choose? The answer seems pretty obvious to me but I'm worried about many women's outlook on what society has taught us we need to have to be beautiful. 

    My sister wants to get fake breasts...I'm against it. She wants to let her scummy boyfriend buy them for her; I'm also against that. I've known her for her entire life and she has never had a "self-image" problem until now. Her boyfriend has friends who all have wives with fake racks and half of them are married to men who are doctors who gave them fake racks. What a materialistic world we have come to live in...fake breasts are something society promotes as being accepted and beautiful; they are FAKE. I will never understand why women think they have to look like a girl in a fashion magazine. I don't hear men saying "I'm saving up for a penis enlargement by stripping on the side" or "I need to go get a sac lift" our views on women and what is beautiful needs to change...but that starts with women changing how they feel about themselves and not buying into societies ploy to make every woman want to become a skinny waisted, big breasted barbie doll.
  • silverwhisper said on Oct 19, 2006....
    good rant, beautyk.  well said.

    ed
  • purrrkitten said on Oct 19, 2006....
    Real boobs are much better... I can always tell by lack of movement that they're fake. I, too, am on the heavier side (four kids'll do that to you) but I always feel better if I let the girls show off for a while. A nice push up bra and a low cut shirt and no one's lookin' at my big butt! *grin*
  • anonymous said on Mar 19, 2007....
    There is way to much pressure on women from men and the media to conform to a certain look in order to feel attractive or sexy. If she does not conform to this she is made to feel inferior, inaduqate,unsexy and unatractive with low body confidence. This culture has been brought about by the media constantly showing air brushed perfection,models,the surgically enhanced or porn stars. It is such a shallow and vain world now that is so sad that women are willing to get themselves into debt to pay for this costly and risky surgery as a result of this. People are needing to get real and realise that women come in all shapes and sizes and are NOT a size 0 with a 32E chest and the face of a super model. Men are not perfect themselves. Women dont put as nearly as much pressure on men about the way they look band there penis size its not fair on ordinary women. Your just fuelling negative body image and the cosmetic industry.
  • CreativeWoman said on Mar 21, 2007....
    Well said, anonymous.

    CW
  • Sandman said on Jun 26, 2007....
    I don't hate fake tits but i damn well prefer
     
    real ones . There are some times when breast
     
    enhancement is needed ( after cancer surgery or
     
     after a kid or two has taken firm breasts and made
     
     flapjacks ) so thats fine ........ BUT    please please
     
    girls keep them normal size . I much prefer small to
     
    medium size breasts ..( a to c cup ) . Young 
     
    women today to quickly put these bags in their
     
    bodies and they had perfect , yes small , firm 
     
    breasts .  I never liked cow udders on a woman .
     
    A lady friend of mine i knew last year had the most
     
    perfect set of firm b-cupers and always hard nipples
     
    that i could ever ask for .  Straight out of my
     
    dreams . And she was SMART too ... funny ...
     
    pretty ... great legs ... and creative !  I miss her
     
    dearly !     SAND  
     

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