I changed my profile pics on the dating site and men are coming out of the woodwork.  I guess the last pics were pretty bad.  I took some the other day that turned out good and finally feel like the real me is being represented.

As a result I've had two dates this week!  One was a obvious "no interest" but the other guy is very interested in me and I think I am interested in him.  He thinks I'm gorgeous and have a nice ass and beautiful breasts and legs (no he did not see them naked on a first date).  Anyhow the point is he looks at the whole me physically and doesn't say "oh, she's kinda fat around the middle" he says "who she's great except for the middle but I can overlook that".  I like that about him.

As far as personality and compatibility - we get along and had a great time talking.  BUT he told me a lot of sexual stuff, like that he has a foot fetish and wanted to make sure I would indulge that if we had a relationship.

He has come on really strong, emailing, calling, and making plans for the future.  I like him but wish he was taking things slower and did n't live an hour away.  

Then today he calls and tells me the last three women he's went on first dates with liked him at first but then suddenly broke it off because they "needed more space".  I told him I saw that pattern with him and he said "well I'm telling you because I want to be honest".

So now I know I have to either see him again or be the number four woman in a row that feels he's a bit too much too fast.

Any suggestions out there?  Why would a man behave this way?

Oh - we did kiss quite a bit and he's very sensual and I find him extremely attractive.