she asks :
is it wrong to trade partners one night..........we are all married and the sex means nothing......except.....i'm seeing him again next saturday when my husband goes hunting.
urconscience says :
the answer will come tomorrow night,,,,,,,,
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idesire2 said on Jul 20, 2008....
i think if her husband is going on the perverbial hunt then she should too.......all of her desires should be fulfilled.........des -
urconscienceishere said on Jul 21, 2008....
now nowthe husband is not the issue hereurcon -
007Hardone said on Jul 21, 2008....
A partners needs and desire should be met. If your partner cannot or will not please them, it is time to move on,,,, -
urconscienceishere said on Jul 21, 2008....
well sd hard1.......but sometimes it is hard to come up with the right words without wounding the other person.........and then the holding it against you starts.....if that starts.....ur right...it's time to move on.....jurcon -
phoeby said on Jul 21, 2008....
personal opinions coming up here (*warning* hehe)if i were married or similar and bf went away for the weekend, then i wouldn't actually fling-ding. bec i look at it like this, i wouldn't want it done to me. I value honesty and to me flings aren't honest.But if the relationship was one of those open ones where both of the partners had talked about being with anyone at anytime and they were the groundrules, then that is a different kettle of fish. i personally know i don't have the capability of being in an open relationship at this stage of my human beingness. but for other people, as long as the other one knew then it's ok. it depends on both partners and what type of relationship it is and where they are emotionally. that way, no one is being hurt or harmed or betrayed. everything is out in the open.like i said, personal opinion. -
BurnedOut said on Jul 22, 2008....
wow, swinging, eh? this is something my wife and I talked about a looooong time ago, but never really brought it up. I have this wierd fantasy about seeing another dude play with her body... -
urconscienceishere said on Jul 22, 2008....
if your seeing this guy again after you already had permission from your husband once.......and you also gave him permission ..once.........then how would you feel if he did the same thing....to you............i always tell you to let urconscience be your guide.........if you don't think you would like him cheating very much........or does it matter to you if he does.....since you have already made up your mind about making out with this man....and your going to see him again.......then i am going to assume you do have an open relationship........if not then you are in trouble.........you need to stop ........because it's not fair.........you shouldn't even be in a relationship much less a swinging one..........your relationship depends on honesty.........only then is it blessed..........urconpsdes......i know what your thinking007.......needs and desires are are needed and desired.............phoeby....ur right.....to each his own........burn..............swinging happens a lot........you might only to mention it to your wife ....... in a tactful way.......perhaps........possibly .........could be............mayhap.. .....certainly a possibility.......etc...............urcon -
BurnedOut said on Jul 22, 2008....
urcon....so do you swing? -
007Hardone said on Jul 22, 2008....
I like the term "Swinging" and though about it alot but have never acted on it. At times I think I'd be a good one then other times, could I cut the mustard?