• Me-Myself&I said on Jul 19, 2008....

  it has been soooo very long. months. now adays i don't know if it's me or him. things change. too bad so sad! ;~{

  glad to know passion still is out there. *smile* take care ~see ya

   

• Fallyn said on Jul 19, 2008....

  with all of me, my mind and my heart. nothing gets left out.
  sometimes it is a melding of everything about two people, and sometimes, it's just comfortable and a release, and sometimes it's fast and passionate.
  

• secretlife said on Jul 19, 2008....

  i miss it too mmi.......been a tough year in the lovemaking dept of my marriage this year.
   
  i'm happy to know you've found someone you "fit" with again.  new love ...fresh new love is a thing like no other thing.

• Lucytorial said on Jul 19, 2008....

  I've been with my husband for nigh on 13/14 yrs now and well, in the begining its about the discovery, then it grows into the knowing, then it becomes dampened by setting up a life together, now after so many years it seems that our love making has grown to a different level wishy... spiritual, a bonding that although very latent in everyday life becomes one of heightened togetherness when we touch.  Its taken a while though, and recent experiences will dampen that togetherness so that friendship can hold things together but its still there if you know what I mean.

  I truly believe it comes down to the basis of the union, the respect and awe one has for another person, the love that holds them together is more an art of agape.

• wishyouwerehere said on Jul 19, 2008....

  MMI - Wishing you lots of love and passion in your life.  In my own life, it was dormant, but not forgotten.  Hoping your love life will also bloom!
   
  Fallyn - I love how you describe it - nothing gets left out.
   
  Thank you so much, Secret.  It's been weird and wonderful.  I feel like a kid, wild with so much feeling.
   
  Lucy - Missed u and hope you are well.  Respect and awe ... yes.  Even with the inevitable geographic distance.

• Lucytorial said on Jul 19, 2008....

  Distance means nothing when love connects two people and you my dear are experiencing that one with the full force of of the unknown... te he hee makes me sigh you're discoveries of late.

• ssmithford said on Jul 20, 2008....

  The Scotsman and I have been together since 2002.  We've had sex exactly 11 times since then.  We're just under 6 months away from our next bedroom encounter.  I don't expect to climax, but I'll enjoy the interaction - afterwards.

• MissMimi said on Jul 20, 2008....

  Wishy, your description is sensual and beautiful.  I don't think I've ever had that.

• wishyouwerehere said on Jul 20, 2008....

  Hi SS - thanks for visiting.  I think being able to count the number of times since 2002 would drive me insane.  Is this a deliberate arrangement?
   
  MsMeems - OMG - It is totally foreign from anything I have ever experienced.  I wish everyone could!  It has awakened something so wonderful I can't even describe it.

• sweetsoul said on Jul 20, 2008....

  I think you describe well some of the differences that people experience.

  I'm reading an excellent book on this topic that I'd whole-heartedly recommend to anyone who's looking for more of a connection in their relationship. It's "Passionate Marriage - keeping love & intimacy alive in committed relationships" by David Schnarch.

  As for our love making...I've never in my life had such a connection. It touches the core of my soul...and it's so much fun.

• ssmithford said on Jul 20, 2008....

  Hi Wishyouwerehere - It's not a deliberate arrangement. The scotsman jacks off at least every other morning.  I'm into self fulfillment as well, about 2x a day.  But that's mostly because the Scotsman won't join me.  If I really REALLY beg for it I get a very reluctant bed partner who suffers me because he'd really rather be doing something else. 

• wishyouwerehere said on Jul 21, 2008....

  TY for the book recommendation, Sweetsoul.  One of my greatest fears is that I know how good my relationship with my ex-husband was in our earlier years, and because something that started so beautifully ended on such a sour note, I am hesitant to give my heart, fearing it would only be worse the next time.
   
  SS - self fulfillment is fine as an appetizer or occaisonal snack (I speak from experience, having endured a very long famine - LOL) but it wears thin when you what you really crave is intimacy.  I am sorry you have an unwilling partner.  Wish I had more to say.

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